Dating chicks with kid(s)

macaframa · 04-13-2006, 06:29 PM

Had a big debate over this. Honestly i cant get in a relationship with a chick who has a kid. It might be selfish on my side but i feel uncomfortable knowing the kid is not mine. It just something that really bothers me. Don't get me wrong I'd fuck a chick who has a kid but getting in a relationship with one, nah I just can't do it. Maybe if i'm older and still single then I'll get over it but i'm 25 right now and all the hot bitches i meet all have fucken kids..

WTF??

Discuss

taebo99 · 04-13-2006, 06:42 PM

I feel your pain and baby daddy is a dead beat

xinster · 04-13-2006, 06:42 PM

The first guy found no reason to keep her, why should you?

ElbowsBlazing · 04-13-2006, 06:43 PM

its tough to deal with, but its also tough at 25 to meet a bitch without any kids thats date-able

Steve Dougson · 04-13-2006, 06:52 PM

The reason some evolutionary psychologists believe men get angry when their woman sleeps around is because there is no way for the man to know if the child is his since it's not born in the man like it is in the woman.

So I guess when you do know the child is yours and that you'll be raising him/her then it can be equally as upsetting.

UbetterTAPout · 04-13-2006, 06:54 PM

I just found a 28 yr old with no kids(i got lucky).

But being 30 and single I dealt with a lot of kids.....I feel your pain brotha

lockjaw211 · 04-13-2006, 06:56 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by macaframa

Had a big debate over this. Honestly i cant get in a relationship with a chick who has a kid. It might be selfish on my side but i feel uncomfortable knowing the kid is not mine. It just something that really bothers me. Don't get me wrong I'd fuck a chick who has a kid but getting in a relationship with one, nah I just can't do it. Maybe if i'm older and still single then I'll get over it but i'm 25 right now and all the hot bitches i meet all have fucken kids..

WTF??

Discuss

i feel the same way, its like the kid is there for the other guy to remind you of what he already did to her.

MEEKER · 04-13-2006, 06:56 PM

if a chick has kids then you know she puts out, and just think when the kid grows into a clone of her mom in 14-16 years you can jam her too because its not your kid

Steve Dougson · 04-13-2006, 06:59 PM

That could make for a pretty awesome tag team.

**positivebalance** · 04-13-2006, 06:59 PM

I dated a chick with a kid. That all changed when she caught me making out with here younger sister. Grass is always greener.