St. Carnal's Pub - Page 13

woogie12 · 10-08-2007, 01:26 AM

I would but I'm impatient and those wouldn't be to my house til about 2 weeks before the fight. And plus we're getting new team shorts that are supposed to be the hawtness.

enright3060 · 10-08-2007, 01:30 AM

congrats barut,

Bama - don't feel bad. The desire to fuck like rabbits is not love.

oyaji poi · 10-08-2007, 04:01 AM

whoa, i just found the secret off-topic thread. that did my head in for a moment there. I'm used to clicking on the top thread in the training logs to check in on graedy. Instead I get this.

Bamaispriceless · 10-08-2007, 05:27 AM

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That's what I'm guessing. You started talking about this girl a month ago, and now you've already fallen in and out of love with her?

Yeah, it was about a month lol. The thing is though, we had been "talking/flirting" for 2-1/2 months, and we dated a bunch and truly was in love. It's not any puppydog bs or whatever, it was extremely strong. But we just moved waaay too fast, and it wasn't gonna work in the long run. We talked all day through text and the phone, and things got stale. I'm still sort of lonely feeling, and she will always be really special to me because she was my "first real love" or whatever, and hopefully we can be good friends, but the relationship won't work. I'll never move that fast again. Sorry, just getting opinions here.

younggunz · 10-08-2007, 05:36 AM

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Yeah, it was about a month lol. The thing is though, we had been "talking/flirting" for 2-1/2 months, and we dated a bunch and truly was in love. It's not any puppydog bs or whatever, it was extremely strong. But we just moved waaay too fast, and it wasn't gonna work in the long run. We talked all day through text and the phone, and things got stale. I'm still sort of lonely feeling, and she will always be really special to me because she was my "first real love" or whatever, and hopefully we can be good friends, but the relationship won't work. I'll never move that fast again. Sorry, just getting opinions here.

if things got stale because of oversaturation..you were infatuated...a form of love that quickly subsides...what you are going through is called retrospective jealousy..you think about her being with other people and it makes you want her back..ther is also comparative jealousy; this happens when you start dating someone new, and they lack certain qualities that you prefered in your old girlfriend..there will be many more of these before you actually find the person you find a suitable mate...think about it this way..there is a long process of elimination that has to happen before you know which qualities you can and can't live without...

Bamaispriceless · 10-08-2007, 05:43 AM

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if things got stale because of oversaturation..you were infatuated...a form of love that quickly subsides...what you are going through is called retrospective jealousy..you think about her being with other people and it makes you want her back..ther is also comparative jealousy; this happens when you start dating someone new, and they lack certain qualities that you prefered in your old girlfriend..there will be many more of these before you actually find the person you find a suitable mate...think about it this way..there is a long process of elimination that has to happen before you know which qualities you can and can't live without...

I think it did grow stale because of that, but I don't feel jealous one bit. I want her to be extremely happy, she deserves it. She made me extremely happy, I made her extremely happy, but things faded. I'm sure she feels the same way about me. As far as comparatative jealousy, I highly doubt I'll go through that. Sure, this girl was my favorite bodytype, and had an excellent personality, but to me I have no major preferences. If the girl can make me laugh my head off and is hot, and I get that "love feeling", then I'm completely happy. This is sounding so much like mayberry, so sorry for that.

younggunz · 10-08-2007, 05:48 AM

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I think it did grow stale because of that, but I don't feel jealous one bit. I want her to be extremely happy, she deserves it. She made me extremely happy, I made her extremely happy, but things faded. I'm sure she feels the same way about me. As far as comparatative jealousy, I highly doubt I'll go through that. Sure, this girl was my favorite bodytype, and had an excellent personality, but to me I have no major preferences. If the girl can make me laugh my head off and is hot, and I get that "love feeling", then I'm completely happy. This is sounding so much like mayberry, so sorry for that.

yeah, emotions are teh gay...but hey man, I went through this "loss regret" when I was in Afghanistan...it lasted all of 6 days....felt sorry for myself, I got jealous, I was pissed off...then I decided, it could be worse..I could be afghanistan....to which I replied.."oh wait"...

Bamaispriceless · 10-08-2007, 07:11 AM

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yeah, emotions are teh gay...but hey man, I went through this "loss regret" when I was in Afghanistan...it lasted all of 6 days....felt sorry for myself, I got jealous, I was pissed off...then I decided, it could be worse..I could be afghanistan....to which I replied.."oh wait"...

Yeah, things could be alot worse for me and her. I don't expect the emotions to last much longer at all, I can definitely see an end in sight. I'm sure being in Afghanistan sort of forced you to re-focus on more important things, like keeping yourself and teammates alive and doing your job.

younggunz · 10-08-2007, 07:15 AM

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Yeah, things could be alot worse for me and her. I don't expect the emotions to last much longer at all, I can definitely see an end in sight. I'm sure being in Afghanistan sort of forced you to re-focus on more important things, like keeping yourself and teammates alive and doing your job.

actually, I just wanted to sleep....
there was a point when I actually wanted a light injury, just so I could take a nap in clean sheets.. funny how priorities change.. When lying in bed with a hot girl, nice cool sheets are the last thing on your mind...thousands of miles from any vagina worth looking at, I could only remember how much I liked predictable weather and clean comfortable beds.

graedy · 10-08-2007, 07:23 AM

So it is time for a long roadtrip, Bama.