[Joey M.]

Originally Posted by Minotauro693

My question is why do all the women i know become whores after our breakup. This is a bad sign, no?

The answer to this question is much simpler than you think:

Revenge: she wants to make you pay for breaking her heart. Her weapon? Promiscuity.

My ex was the same way when we broke up; I'd see pictures of her making out with both guys and girls on her MySpace and Facebook and I'd even see comments from her friends on both profiles asking,

"so who was the lucky guy last night? ;-)"

In fact, I haven't slept with anyone since we broke up (we broke up in January). I've turned down several offers for one-night stands because I simply will not allow myself to sink to her level. The best thing you can do is to just cut her off and move on; she's the one acting like a child, not you.

[>>jonutarr>]

All whores have low self esteem, they feel a need for male attention to make up for it, the irony is it also contributes to their low self esteem. When they no longer have the body they let themselves slide in other ways (getting fat, Alcoholism etc.) my advice is keep away, all women are not like that.

[Wolfcastle]

Yeah, some do it. I had one, her parting words were "I'm gunna go out and be a slut and have as many guys as I can and you can sit there and think about that!"

She did too. And she made sure it was with guys right under my nose too, so I wouldn't miss it.

At the end of the day they choose their path. They do things like that to make themselves feel better (desired etc) and to get a reaction from you. The bigger the reaction or the more hurt they cause, they realise how much you felt for them (yawn, another victory for them). It's all feathering their own ego.

I actually read some story recently about a guy who split up with his girl and she went out and let three Mexican guys fuck her at once, in front of him (I don't know how that shit just happens), but ouch! Unfortunately they know how to stick the knife into a guy. You just have to rise above it and suck it up.

[NHB7]

Originally Posted by Wolfcastle

Yeah, some do it. I had one, her parting words were "I'm gunna go out and be a slut and have as many guys as I can and you can sit there and think about that!"

She did too. And she made sure it was with guys right under my nose too, so I wouldn't miss it.

At the end of the day they choose their path. They do things like that to make themselves feel better (desired etc) and to get a reaction from you. The bigger the reaction or the more hurt they cause, they realise how much you felt for them (yawn, another victory for them). It's all feathering their own ego.

Ouch. I got one that may top it though. When I dumped my ex this was what she said to me as I grabbed my jacket and walked past her to get out the door, "I only cheated on you because you deserved it, and your just upset because you know you will never get a girl as attractive as me ever again." Man oh man I wanted to knock her lights out, but I just kept walking.

I have to admit it cut me deep at the time, but whats most pathetic about it is that in hindsight I realize she had been practicing that line for that very moment.

[Joey M.]

Originally Posted by NHB7

Ouch. I got one that may top it though. When I dumped my ex this was what she said to me as I grabbed my jacket and walked past her to get out the door, "I only cheated on you because you deserved it, and your just upset because you know you will never get a girl as attractive as me ever again." Man oh man I wanted to knock her lights out, but I just kept walking.

I have to admit it cut me deep at the time, but whats most pathetic about it is that in hindsight I realize she had been practicing that line for that very moment.

Hit her: sometimes she deserves it

[Wolfcastle]

Originally Posted by NHB7

Ouch. I got one that may top it though. When I dumped my ex this was what she said to me as I grabbed my jacket and walked past her to get out the door, "I only cheated on you because you deserved it, and your just upset because you know you will never get a girl as attractive as me ever again." Man oh man I wanted to knock her lights out, but I just kept walking.

I have to admit it cut me deep at the time, but whats most pathetic about it is that in hindsight I realize she had been practicing that line for that very moment.

Hmm. Pity you weren't in a position to laugh your arse off as you walked out the door.
Yeah. I look back and laugh at how chicks attempt, and sometimes manage to throw any situation back on a guy so that it's somehow his fault. I swear their minds are geared for it from an early age, they are REAL good at it.

To the point that you think 'they have a point there' and its not until a little bit later you wake up to yourself and say "Fucking hang on!"

[NHB7]

Originally Posted by Wolfcastle

Hmm. Pity you weren't in a position to laugh your arse off as you walked out the door.
Yeah. I look back and laugh at how chicks attempt, and sometimes manage to throw any situation back on a guy so that it's somehow his fault. I swear their minds are geared for it from an early age, they are REAL good at it.

To the point that you think 'they have a point there' and its not until a little bit later you wake up to yourself and say "Fucking hang on!"

Yep, if I could go back in time I would have smiled at her, laughed and then called a friend to go out for beers as I walked down the stairs and to the front door.

[Joey M.]

Originally Posted by Wolfcastle

Hmm. Pity you weren't in a position to laugh your arse off as you walked out the door.
Yeah. I look back and laugh at how chicks attempt, and sometimes manage to throw any situation back on a guy so that it's somehow his fault. I swear their minds are geared for it from an early age, they are REAL good at it.

American women are notoriously good at this. The only problem is that I'm not a sucker like the rest of those Johns who take their shit.

[Wolfcastle]

Originally Posted by Joey M.

American women are notoriously good at this. The only problem is that I'm not a sucker like the rest of those Johns who take their shit.

knock their teeth out and stand over them and say "You're not so pretty now baby!"

Something like that?

[Muntant]

[quote=Minotauro693]I have only dated three girls in my life.

I have slept with exactly 20. Only the aforementioned three more than once. All others were one nighters.


I have ended all relationships and all three women seemed to be deeply in love with me and expressed that frequently. However, when all relationships ended each girl went out and partied hard and did things I wouldn't expect them to do(although due to my suspicious nature I would never rule it out.) I completely write girls off when I'm done with them, that is, I let them know their flaws and why I dont wish to know them anymore when we break up.
Anyways my last girlfriend let me know a few weeks after we broke up about how much partying she was doing. How she hooked up with a guy(she previously claimed that one nighters were not for her...she says this wasn't a one nighter b/c she talked with the guy weeks before..yet they hooked up once...maybe they will continue to hook up, but IMO fuck buddies and one nighters are on the same level..just w/a FB you do it more than once), made out with a couple guys, and even kissed a girl...which she was wayyyy against doing. I've kept up with her via her myspace profile and she doesn't know that I keep tabs on her. She has a lot of new girlfriends now(something she never had while we were together) and is partying a lot and I hear about how she has all these "boy-toys" as she calls them.


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Can we say pot calling the kettle black ? There are many reasons for girls to sleep around and none of them are really that good. But why does it matter to you? You seem to do virtually the same thing your self with your 10+ one night stands, so seriously why does it even matter to you? Seems to me like you have problems with adhering to double standards. And besides she is not your girl any more so who gives a shit, let her fuck every thing with a dick and 2 legs, will only make you feel better that you got rid of the slut.