Women: Why do they become whores?

Minotauro693 · 06-08-2006, 11:57 AM

I have only dated three girls in my life.

I have slept with exactly 20. Only the aforementioned three more than once. All others were one nighters.

I just broke it off on my terms completely with my last girlfriend who was living with me(long story, but not because we planned to get married).

I am not outwardly emotional, but inside I am very emotional. I remember specifics and I pay close attention. I am very suspicious as well. I'm also very analytical.

I have ended all relationships and all three women seemed to be deeply in love with me and expressed that frequently. However, when all relationships ended each girl went out and partied hard and did things I wouldn't expect them to do(although due to my suspicious nature I would never rule it out.) I completely write girls off when I'm done with them, that is, I let them know their flaws and why I dont wish to know them anymore when we break up.
Anyways my last girlfriend let me know a few weeks after we broke up about how much partying she was doing. How she hooked up with a guy(she previously claimed that one nighters were not for her...she says this wasn't a one nighter b/c she talked with the guy weeks before..yet they hooked up once...maybe they will continue to hook up, but IMO fuck buddies and one nighters are on the same level..just w/a FB you do it more than once), made out with a couple guys, and even kissed a girl...which she was wayyyy against doing. I've kept up with her via her myspace profile and she doesn't know that I keep tabs on her. She has a lot of new girlfriends now(something she never had while we were together) and is partying a lot and I hear about how she has all these "boy-toys" as she calls them.

My question is why do all the women i know become whores after our breakup. This is a bad sign, no?

Jujitsuboxer · 06-08-2006, 12:24 PM

lol i think it a revenge thing, i have had same prob with some of my gf. My last jsut got used to having sex regualry so whe we broke up ( mutal) she got horny after a little while. so i not exactlys ure but it may be revenge

Daley · 06-08-2006, 12:30 PM

why wouldnt they wild out, you mean nothing to them any more and they ahve to find a new guy, jsut be happy that they werent whoring out when you were dating them.

w0cyru01 · 06-08-2006, 12:34 PM

If you completely write them off, why do you care?

Minotauro693 · 06-08-2006, 12:39 PM

Meggakron: Thanks man, I bet you can kick my ass.

w0cyru: I told you... i'm analytical, just wondering. If i was a cocky idiot I would say "Man i fuck so good they can't get enough of the dick now." I think I'm a little smarter, therefore I wonder if its a bad thing and asking those who have some kind of experience in this area if there is a rhyme or reason or something I'm fucking up. That's why I care...for me, not for them.

Dogon · 06-08-2006, 12:43 PM

Very simple, its revenge and an attempt to make you jealous/mad. They're doing all the shit you told them they can't or they felt they couldn't while they were with you. Why? They're too immature to deal with the fact they got dropped so they get you back in the only way they know how. I'm not sure how rationale it is considering whoring will catch up with them but I think it may be to get you to A) stop them, show you care, and they tell you to fuck off B) make everyone think your girl (although its an ex) is a whore and probably cheated on, which they may or may not be saying and others will be inclined to believe considering their recent observations....who knows but if you really don't care move on and find the next one, or just bang that jealous whore on the side

pants · 06-08-2006, 01:10 PM

maybe sex with you was so bad they felt like they needed to have more to make up for it.

pants · 06-08-2006, 01:11 PM

(i love you really.)

norcal313 · 06-08-2006, 01:25 PM

This just happened to me as well. My gf and I broke up, on pretty good terms... or so I thought. It seems she's turned into Stripperella. She now goes out 5-6 nights a week and dresses, well, like a whore. She knows I still have feelings for her but our relationship ended because I didn't have time for her. I don't understand why girls do this either, I'd imagine there would be better ways to get back or make me jealous, because this just turns me off to her.

PsychoSystem · 06-08-2006, 01:34 PM

because that is their nature and they start not caring about who satisfies them as long as they get orgasms. it could also be due to the way girls are conditioned nowadays