[Lagrange]

Originally Posted by TeTe lol Chin

It's like Ben Affleck said in the movie Boiler room:

"We have a saying around here, it's called 'act as if.'" "Act as if you are the president and CEO of the fucking company." "Act as if you have a nine inch cock." "Act as if"

No matter what you look like, intelligence and being well spoken trumps all.

Worst advice ever. There are plenty of douchebags I've met who've "acted as if" and don't come off as anything more than idiots to everyone who meets them.

[Lagrange]

Originally Posted by Colin297

Social dynamics is an interesting thing.

Lately, on numerous occasions ive noticed how some people receive more respect and attention than others.

I'm not talking of famous people etc, just an everyday interaction or club situation where you and your friends go out and meet other people, some you know some you dont.

if im honest id say im somewhere in the middle, some people seem to take to me, some people dont and vice versa of course. What im intruged about though, is how some people almost effortlessly get more respect than another from a perfect stranger or someone they barely know, perhaps after only a few words. Why is this; somethings the coldness of it pisses me off regardless of which side im on at the time im generally aware its petty and founded upon screwed up human mentality for most part..


What do you think are the factors here and to which degrees...

Reputation?
Appearance?
Body language?
Conversation?
How approachable or fun you come across etc...?



anyone have any examples or comments?

Look and act like Fedor.

[Colin]

Originally Posted by Lagrange

Look and act like Fedor.

ironically, i do look a bit like Fedor! lol

[louky]

for 2 installments of $399 i can tell you how to get respect automatically

[Michael Wanaka]

For me, I think it helps that i'm 6'3 and 235

[Jay Pan ROKK]

Charisma, karma, aura, personal magnetism, things alike.

[groo]

Originally Posted by Michael Wanaka

For me, I think it helps that i'm 6'3 and 235

People aren't respecting you, they are just wary that you are gonna try and steal their food.