[Big Nic]

Me having sex with your mom would be considered having an affair.

[Cojofl]

You are a dickhead

[MeBig]

I just posted in the other thread that I had sex with a married women and never did and still don't care because i'm just a guy who's not involved. However, this is your boy, his girl is off-limits regardless of all. and WIFE? get outta here with that man. Go look at dictionary.com or something you make me sick. Can you post pics?

[YellowHare]

Yes, this counts as an affair and any other approach or questioning around it is just you trying to justify your actions.

That said, most relationships that start off through chaos end in chaos. Think about that.

[MeBig]

On the other hand, what now? He already did what he did, the husband already knows what he knows, and these two are still horny. I guess just keep it up. But you should, indeed, be ashamed.

[Three Gun Fish]

This would be a definition of having an affair. Congratulations. You've just discovered you're weak.

Not a big whoop, to be honest. Disciplined people are hard to come by.

See what I did there.

[TGDIVA]

Originally Posted by ca_styles

So me and his wife have a relationship based on feelings for each other and sex.

You weak fuck - how dare you say you have FEELINGS?

You have no feelings, self-respect or strength.

What's worse is you don't seem remorseful.

Sorry but people this mentally and emotionally weak need to be offed.

[ca_styles]

Ok let me get one think striaght im not justifying my actions iam all of the above i can except that. Even if this relation ship or affair what ever the fuck its is doesnt last i only got my self to blame. All i asked was a dumb question about was i having an affair. At the end of the day what i did was wrong i dont need anyone in this thread to tell me that.

[TGDIVA]

Originally Posted by ca_styles

Ok let me get one think striaght im not justifying my actions iam all of the above i can except that. Even if this relation ship or affair what ever the fuck its is doesnt last i only got my self to blame. All i asked was a dumb question about was i having an affair. At the end of the day what i did was wrong i dont need anyone in this thread to tell me that.

By saying "IF this relationship or affair ends..." you ARE justifying your actions by repeating them.

Prove you have a hint of strength and end it.

Won't hold my breath.

[Three Gun Fish]

Originally Posted by ca_styles

Ok let me get one think striaght im not justifying my actions iam all of the above i can except that. Even if this relation ship or affair what ever the fuck its is doesnt last i only got my self to blame. All i asked was a dumb question about was i having an affair. At the end of the day what i did was wrong i dont need anyone in this thread to tell me that.

You're kind of asking for it. Maybe this thread is a way to make amends, but you can't seriously wonder whether this was an affair or not. Especially when you already know what you did -- whatever you want to call it -- was the wrong thing to do. Maybe you did not want to admit it you yourself, not really.

You ought not deny yourself.

Accepting the pain of who you are today will forge a stronger foundation for the man you can become tomorrow.