So I have this friend..

Rinksterk · 04-07-2007, 10:02 PM

Who I wanna fuck. I don't have many close friends. I know a bunch of people I occasionally hang out with but very few "friends." This girl is one of very few people I consider a friend. We get along really well and meet about 2 or 3 times a week to have lunch or whatever.
I don't why now after two years of knowing her, but these past few days I've been having this urge to fuck the shit out of her.

Anyone else ever have this urge to fuck a friend? How would you do it? And if you do, is there way to do it without it being too awkward afterwards?

ebe9 · 04-07-2007, 11:58 PM

It seems like you're good friends. If you really want to fuck her, just tell her how you feel and asker her if she's fine with moving on to the next level. And treat it like you're dating her, meaning make gradual advances, i.e., start off holding hands, then hugging, then kissing, making out, etc. The only problem is if she doesn't feel the same way for you then you're friendship is fucked. So you have to make that choice: her pussy or her friendship?

mahalo · 04-08-2007, 12:50 AM

the OT would provide you with better guidance.

nvmeplz · 04-08-2007, 12:57 AM

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Originally Posted by mahalo

the OT would provide you with better guidance.

^^
Shut up.

Anyways first we have to know what you want. Do you just want a fuck buddy or a relationship?
If you just want a fuck buddy I would just tell her you want to have fun and not looking for a relationship and that she is really fun to be around and that you guys would have a good time. Tell her that it will be casual and just to have fun.

Maximus · 04-08-2007, 01:04 AM

i dont know dude...it might be a difficult situation if you've been too good of friends for too long...that's what you call being stuck in the friend zone

nvmeplz · 04-08-2007, 01:06 AM

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Originally Posted by Maximus

i dont know dude...it might be a difficult situation if you've been too good of friends for too long...that's what you call being stuck in the friend zone

Or she may become attached after they mess around. Which would be bad for him if he doesn't want a relationship with her.

kakashi · 07:07 AM

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Originally Posted by ebe9

And treat it like you're dating her, meaning make gradual advances, i.e., start off holding hands, then hugging, then kissing, making out, etc.

hahaha, yeah right

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Originally Posted by ebe9

The only problem is if she doesn't feel the same way for you then you're friendship is fucked. So you have to make that choice: her pussy or her friendship?

Once she's married and has kids they probably won't be friends anymore, so who cares.

balance · 04-08-2007, 06:08 AM

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Originally Posted by ebe9

It seems like you're good friends. If you really want to fuck her, just tell her how you feel and asker her if she's fine with moving on to the next level. And treat it like you're dating her, meaning make gradual advances, i.e., start off holding hands, then hugging, then kissing, making out, etc. The only problem is if she doesn't feel the same way for you then you're friendship is fucked. So you have to make that choice: her pussy or her friendship?

Worst advice eva.

What it boils down to is you are going to have to determine what is more important to you:

1. Go for it and try to fuck her while letting the whole "friend" thing go to shit; or
2. Do nothing and remain her guy friend while making friendly with the guys that do fuck her.

I don't know how long you have known/been friends with her, and to me, this makes all the difference. If you've known her awhile, and are only now having sexual feelings for her, I would let this pass. Chances are your body is telling you to get laid and she is always around. If you are recent friends, I would try to hit it. Either now or never.

And pics or work.

Edit: You did say two years. So I would keep her as a friend and try to get introduced to some of her single girlfriends,

iwannafightu2 · 04-08-2007, 07:04 AM

it would for sure make things akward. it would either turn into a relationship, or fizzle out to no more friendship. and if you make a move, and she doesnt like it, then thats akward too. friends are friends. sex is an aquantence or girlfriend, not a good friend.

LONETRAVELER · 04-08-2007, 07:30 AM

Just know this. Unless she is one cool ass chick after you hit you won't have that same friendship you have now.

Seeing as though you don't make many people your friend I say don't ruin the friendship by trying to hit it.

PLUS who's saying that she would let you anyway! You may try to hit and have her turn you down, then you won't get the pussy or have a friend.

Let it be. If she wants you then thats different, otherwise just jerk off before you go around her to take off the edge.