should I dump my gf?

St Pauli · 05-29-2007, 03:40 AM

I have been going out with my gf for 3 and a half years and I love her to bits I would have married her. This girl has a temper. years ago after a argument she rang my work and told them I was a drug dealer and told my dad i hit her (Iam not and did not). anyway this weekend I slamed a door and as I was leaving she came up behind me and pushed me down the stairs head first! now my arm and back are killing me!!! so anyway should I dump her or just get over the it

rekka · 05-29-2007, 03:46 AM

holy crap... that seems a bit... much, i would leave, but then again u said u were gunna marry her... so its a tough choice, ill go with the leaving option, but then she might get so mad and then do something big... >.> AHHH SO TOUGH

**GermanBJJ** · 05-29-2007, 03:52 AM

Is this serious? Of course you should! This girl is nucking futs!

St Pauli · 05-29-2007, 03:55 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by GermanBJJ

Is this serious? Of course you should! This girl is nucking futs!

Im totally serious I wish I was joking. I feel like a mug becfause I still love her but man she could have killed me!

**GermanBJJ** · 05-29-2007, 03:58 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by St Pauli

Im totally serious I wish I was joking. I feel like a mug becfause I still love her but man she could have killed me!

...And could have got you fired.

...And could have ruined your home life.

This isn't a hard decision.

Magooglie · 05-29-2007, 04:00 AM

1. Gather evidence and inform the local authorities she is abusive. This may require you to stay in the relationship for a few more months.
3. Break up with her.
2. Get a restraining order.

You need to protect yourself against a nut like this. If you just break up she might hide kiddy pron in your computer and then call the cops on you.

FallenXAngel · 05-29-2007, 04:23 AM

Break up with her or give her a taste of her own medicine. However the latter will end badly for you. In lieu of that, just end it.

fullmetalgunner · 05-29-2007, 05:04 AM

I would have broken up with her when she called my job and lied to my dad. She pushed you down the stairs, it wouldnt be a hard decision for me.

Woob · 05-29-2007, 05:38 AM

If you do break up with her, plan it in advance and take screen sots of ur comp and everything. make sure she can;t plant any evidence in your house or anythign. maybe tell you dad and ask to store some stuff at hisplace or something.

do you live together? if so will you be moving out or will she?

Preter · 05-29-2007, 05:40 AM

preparation my friend...