Putting Women on a Pedestal - Page 2

Chaseg1520 · 03-21-2008, 02:19 PM

Why don't you get more optimistic and look at it as she learned from the losers and decided to take a step up by being with you since you are better than that?

SH5 · 03-21-2008, 02:50 PM

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Originally Posted by Timetravel_0

I guess it's more of a feeling of "That guy works at Jiffy Lube and sells drugs, I cant believe you would even give him the time of day much less have moved in with him for a year." I guess I'd like to feel that I'm better than that and not be grouped with such type of guys.

I've felt this way about a couple of girls and have even felt that way with my wife. Even she will admit that she's dated a lot of loser lowlifes. I also think that women's choices change as they mature. In their teens and early twenties they go out with the exciting, fun guys, then in their late twenties become more responsible and go for the better providers.

I Was like this for a while and still am to a degree. I kept looking for someone to pass the test and she never seem to show up . So I went around with a too good for her outlook and really became sort of a anti social person. Until I found someone really close I found out some things I really didn't like , but it didn't change the fact that I thought she was perfect . I could not deal with the fact that she was perfect but didn't fit the mold I thought she would and I ended up making her feel guilty un intentionally .. and tried to "help" her . I pushed her a way . Far Far away .

I still worship this girl so to speak , but I lost her to someone else . IT took me nearly a year and a half to get back to where she would talk to me and trust me again. Absolute "WORST " thing I have ever done in my life . Change now !!

Realize that young women are usually creatures with low self esteem and just want to be wanted and have no need to fear of loss . so they pick shitty guys

Philosophighter · 03-21-2008, 02:59 PM

Keep em on a pedestal, bro. Women are a treasure to our biology, and the cause of most of our psychology. Though you can find many reasons to take them off the pedestal, keeping them there is good for your magnanimity.

In short though, just cuz a diamond falls in the dirt, it doesnt change the fact that it is a diamond. A crumpled up pissed on $100 is still worth the same amount. A chick who makes retarded fucking decisions, goes into pron, deals with low life fellas, etc. can still be a great mother, a great wife, and be beautiful enough to dominate your brain chemically for life.

Its all perspective really, but keeping them on a pedestal in my opinion, keeps your eye on the prize.

Chaseg1520 · 03-21-2008, 03:32 PM

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Originally Posted by Philosophighter

Keep em on a pedestal, bro. Women are a treasure to our biology, and the cause of most of our psychology. Though you can find many reasons to take them off the pedestal, keeping them there is good for your magnanimity.

In short though, just cuz a diamond falls in the dirt, it doesnt change the fact that it is a diamond. A crumpled up pissed on $100 is still worth the same amount. A chick who makes retarded fucking decisions, goes into pron, deals with low life fellas, etc. can still be a great mother, a great wife, and be beautiful enough to dominate your brain chemically for life.

Its all perspective really, but keeping them on a pedestal in my opinion, keeps your eye on the prize.

Well written and a great counter thought...

Timetravel_0 · 03-21-2008, 04:14 PM

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Originally Posted by Philosophighter

Keep em on a pedestal, bro. Women are a treasure to our biology, and the cause of most of our psychology. Though you can find many reasons to take them off the pedestal, keeping them there is good for your magnanimity.

In short though, just cuz a diamond falls in the dirt, it doesnt change the fact that it is a diamond. A crumpled up pissed on $100 is still worth the same amount. A chick who makes retarded fucking decisions, goes into pron, deals with low life fellas, etc. can still be a great mother, a great wife, and be beautiful enough to dominate your brain chemically for life.

Its all perspective really, but keeping them on a pedestal in my opinion, keeps your eye on the prize.

Thanks for that, it really puts things into perspective.

Tiger · 03-21-2008, 04:37 PM

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Originally Posted by Philosophighter

Keep em on a pedestal, bro. Women are a treasure to our biology, and the cause of most of our psychology. Though you can find many reasons to take them off the pedestal, keeping them there is good for your magnanimity.

In short though, just cuz a diamond falls in the dirt, it doesnt change the fact that it is a diamond. A crumpled up pissed on $100 is still worth the same amount. A chick who makes retarded fucking decisions, goes into pron, deals with low life fellas, etc. can still be a great mother, a great wife, and be beautiful enough to dominate your brain chemically for life.

Its all perspective really, but keeping them on a pedestal in my opinion, keeps your eye on the prize.

Diamonds are not living things and havent got a psychology or mental health to be stirred...

Cars would be a better reference,when they make bad decisions and go off road they wear out,when they deal with low life drivers they wear them out cause they suck,and no like women cars cannot still be great after being battered by miles and miles and bad handling...

Even repair wont get u back to its true worth...irreversable stuff

PS: before anyone decides to make fun of me i know that cars dont make decisions on their own...just clarifying that cause many ppl misunderstand me

RedFox89 · 03-21-2008, 05:01 PM

Just treat them the way you want to be treated, and dont obsess over them. Become laid back. Its not hard. Dont act like your soulmates and have fun while youre together because it probably wont last forever.

pharaoh · 03-21-2008, 06:11 PM

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Originally Posted by Philosophighter

Keep em on a pedestal, bro. Women are a treasure to our biology, and the cause of most of our psychology. Though you can find many reasons to take them off the pedestal, keeping them there is good for your magnanimity.

In short though, just cuz a diamond falls in the dirt, it doesnt change the fact that it is a diamond. A crumpled up pissed on $100 is still worth the same amount. A chick who makes retarded fucking decisions, goes into pron, deals with low life fellas, etc. can still be a great mother, a great wife, and be beautiful enough to dominate your brain chemically for life.

Its all perspective really, but keeping them on a pedestal in my opinion, keeps your eye on the prize.

Women are not inanimate objects. They have complex brains, and get corrupted and twisted through life experiences. Yes, they are a major part of life, but YOU come first. Taking care of YOURSELF and your desires is number one. Putting women on a pedestal neglects your own development, and in the end, will lead you straight to misery.

To TS: Improve yourself and your life, and the women will come. They will all follow a man who has worth, dignity, and a goal.

Jdow187 · 03-21-2008, 06:33 PM

i'll admit i sometimes do this

Jdow187 · 03-21-2008, 06:35 PM

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Originally Posted by pharaoh

Women are not inanimate objects. They have complex brains, and get corrupted and twisted through life experiences. Yes, they are a major part of life, but YOU come first. Taking care of YOURSELF and your desires is number one. Putting women on a pedestal neglects your own development, and in the end, will lead you straight to misery.

To TS: Improve yourself and your life, and the women will come. They will all follow a man who has worth, dignity, and a goal.

Wise words bro.

respect