[VampireMonk]

the problem I have, the girls are too young for me in age....

[chardog]

good read, and accurate.

To add: when a man is in a relationship, and looses his man card, the relationship tends to fail. As stated above, women dont want weak insecure men. Women in general, are weak insecure creatures that need a strong man.

btw, looks arent too important, but dont be a slob! always dress for sucess

Proof of looks not being important:

http://abcnews.go.com/Primetime/story?id=2258069&page=1

^^ that werewolf guy has a hot girlfriend

[USAMMAFAN]

Originally Posted by chardog

Women in general, are weak insecure creatures that need a strong man.

lmao thats not sexist or anything

maybee you are just attracted to weak and insecure women as you are a weak and insecure man,

[GermanBJJ]

Originally Posted by chardog

good read, and accurate.

To add: when a man is in a relationship, and looses his man card, the relationship tends to fail. As stated above, women dont want weak insecure men. Women in general, are weak insecure creatures that need a strong man.

btw, looks arent too important, but dont be a slob! always dress for sucess

Proof of looks not being important:

http://abcnews.go.com/Primetime/story?id=2258069&page=1

^^ that werewolf guy has a hot girlfriend

Not good looking? That guy could be the Brad Pitt of werewolves for all you know!

[Zeke's Chaingun]

Originally Posted by Zankou

You're providing advice and a pep talk; I'm just analyzing objectively. Both are legitimate ways to approach the issue, but different.

The one thing I will elaborate here a little further is this -- you will note that I said a woman's sexual desire primarily focuses on men who she perceives are better than her (i.e., more desirable in sexually competitive terms; above her station). There is substantial room to work with on that "perception," since women may form greatly varying perceptions of any given man. Most of all, they are led by the perceptions of other women. If you act like you are a great catch, many women's perception may be sold on that act, particularly if intoxicated. You can't oversell by boasting; what people call "confidence" is more properly described as demonstrating the believable conviction that she should be yours because you're that good, and you happen to like her.

Conversely, if you act like you can't get anywhere, and are hoping for favors, you are screwed beyond measure.

This I agree with. Well said.

[MMAJITSU1]

Good stuff Zeke, bit long but informative. You got my respect

[2om30]

Zeke, do you have any techniques that you use to get over approach anxiety. When approaching a girl in a club per se. What's the mind set...

[chardog]

Originally Posted by USAMMAFAN

lmao thats not sexist or anything

maybee you are just attracted to weak and insecure women as you are a weak and insecure man,

every man is sexist... unless you truely believe that men and women are 100 percent equal... we are different, that's what makes us man and woman.

Zeke, do you have any techniques that you use to get over approach anxiety. When approaching a girl in a club per se. What's the mind set...

i'm not zeke, but i could provide pointers.

I think the club is the easiest place to approach women, so that part is taken care of. If you cant do it sober, then start off with a few drinks. once you had enough, then you will have the guts to hit on girls.

START DOING IT. Just do it. Give yourself a 5 second rule that you live by. Do it in 5 seconds or dont do it at all. The more you get psyched out, the less chance of you doing it. You cant think about these things when you're a inexperienced. You just do it. The mindset is.... have no mindset and act without thinking. That doesnt mean to hit up the girl with the bf, but when you see a single hottie, dont think about what to do and just do it. Start walking either towards or away.

once you are accustomed to it, decrease your alcohol and try it. The way I personally overcame this issue was with lots of practice at an early stage.

WHAT TO SAY. The most important thing to do when you hit on a girl is....







the ability to make her laugh. Learn how to make women laugh. if you're not good at that, take up some books with jokes. sometimes it's not the things you say, but the way you say it. Best ice breaker is a good joke/teaser to make her laugh.

[bucstud86]

Originally Posted by Ncharge

I mentioned average-unattractive men "getting" beautiful women, but you've no idea what is going on in that relationship. Why do you assume it is working? The problem is that men will assume being married or "exclusive" means something...more often it does not. A woman may be with lesser attractive men for a variety of reasons, but the most probable is security. Even if they marry this person and have their children, it doesn't mean they find that person attractive or that they were even faithful. There are men being played everywhere who have no idea. You need to stop assuming women are so different from men. Bottom line. This is why you keep getting played.

There are always new threads on Sherdog talking about how woman are whores. Well you just confirmed it.

[VampireMonk]

get a woman that is your level,
so you have to know what level you really are,
and trust me, everyone thinks they are a level higher than they really are,
some think they are waaaaay higher than they really are, which is real sad and unrealistic.