[bweaver]

So Iv been seeing this girl now for a couple weeks, I guess not truly seeing, we've been talking for awhile and usually hang out in a group of friends. We get along very good and I really thought that she liked me, I def liked her. We talked about where we stood with eachother and I told her I was interested in her and if things progressed past friends that would be great. Anyway to make a long story short we were all hanging out on saturday night had a good time and I asked her if I could take her out in a week or two just the two of us, she finally agreed. Untill today she said to me "Oh, to be more clear, I only meant to go out as friends nothing more"

So WTF? So first she seems like shes looking for more than friends, and now she only wants to be friends, god I don't understand women and I think that we never will, what does she mean by just friends as in going out? so am I pretty much screwed with taking things further?

[Theprospect26]

Ummmm...maybe she means that she just wants to start as friends and sees where it goes from there. Don't read too much into it.

Go out with her and see if there's anything there. Just have a good time. If she likes you then she'll ask you to hang out again soon alone.

[CJF]

With benefits ;)

[GracieMMABarra]

She doesn't want to sound like you'll get any. But once drunk it's a new ball game haha j.k. No man will ever understand what women want because women don't know what they want

[Three Gun Fish]

You, like many people, are looking at this backwards. You are REACTING. What you want to do is ACT.

The difference between an action and a reaction is you're in charge with the first one. With the second one, you're simply playing catch-up. You want to be AHEAD of the game.

One solid way of being ahead of the dating game is by turning yourself into a catch. Become a viable commodity. Dress as well as you can (that does not mean dressy-dressy everyday). Smell nice, act polite. Make money. Have fun. Go travel. These are all things you can enjoy fully on their own as well. Become a catch, women will come to you.

The other thing you might NOT NOT NOT want to do is bring up the conversation "Where Do We Stand?" You don't talk to a meal and say, "First I'm going to order you at a fancy restaurant. Maybe get some wine. Then when you come to the table I will eat you all up. Chew chew chew. Then swallow. My stomach will then . . . " What I am telling you is talking about things will not set your mind at ease, nor will it create the most romantic of atmospheres. Talking about a relationship is only worth doing when the relationship is worth talking about. Remember this: While a woman might not need a strong man to make her life complete, she will not want to spend her affections on a boy who must first ask permission to see if it's all right with her, maybe, if someday he could ask her out.

At the beginning, nothing is worth talking about. Be cool.

This has been all general information. Specific to your case: no, she is not shutting you down entirely. You could very well be friend-zoned if you sit on your heels about making yourself look more like a good catch. Exploit the opportunity. A date is your opportunity to show how great it would be to be your girl. Don't lie and overdo it. Shit will come back to haunt you.

[BigB0SS]

[girl/fightfan]

do not - i repeat, do NOT - ask her again where the relationship stands or how she feels about you, or "us", or anything else like that for a long time. girls hate insecurity worse than b.o. we can smell it on you like a dog!

she is not shutting you down. just be yourself and have fun and show her how much of a cool guy you would be to go out with. she'll either go out with you or she won't. over-analysing the situation will not help!

[thebluerider]

Originally Posted by girl/fightfan

do not - i repeat, do NOT - ask her again where the relationship stands or how she feels about you, or "us", or anything else like that for a long time. girls hate insecurity worse than b.o. we can smell it on you like a dog!

she is not shutting you down. just be yourself and have fun and show her how much of a cool guy you would be to go out with. she'll either go out with you or she won't. over-analysing the situation will not help!

That's all there is to it.

[p0nda]

How old are you?

[KING METEOR]

That means that she wil not give you the pink or anything else for the matter except screwing you your time , your mind ( wich she already started to ) and your money .

And it means you should start hunting for another piece of flesh wich will save you all of the above .

Lol friendship what the fuck do you want me to do with your friendship , if there is no sex possible you ain't worth the time , money and effort , not even talking to , plain and simple .