[highkicknomore]

I've known this female friend for about 5 years or so. I found out about a year ago that she liked me because her best friend called when she was drunk and left a message stating: "Insert Girl's name is really into you but she doesn't want to let you know".
She never knew that her best friend called me. After that we still hung out like regular buddies and I never told her about it. Then two months ago she brings up that her cousin is getting married and will have the wedding in a couple of months. I knew where she was going with this. Then a week later, I got an email from her stating "I can bring one person to my company's Christmas Party and the first person I thought of was you. I want you to go with me,bla bla bla". Kind of early to invite me to a Christmas Party don't you think?

Now how do I deal with this situation? I only like her as a friend but don't want to be a jerk and hurt her feelings.

Need advice.

[AlphaDelphic]

I would say tag it, bag it, then send it home - but you dont wanna hurt her feelings. One way to go about it is to start dating a different girl and keep whats-her-name in the friend zone.

[highkicknomore]

That's the problem, I've already treated her like she's in the friend zone but she keeps on trying.

[tom sumter]

If you want to keep her "friendship" keep it that way. Unless you are ready to progress to a romantic relationship, sex will only make things messy and complicated.

Don't "tag it, bag it, and send it home." You've been friends for five years. Obviously she means more to you than a piece of meat.

[DropBows]

If you definately don't want to screw her then drop whatever subtle hints that you're totally not intereted in her.

For example, say the things that girls tell you whom you want to screw but aren't interested in you. ie: "I like tall guys that are well groomed."

[Three Gun Fish]

Politely decline. And continue doing so. You don't have to give a reason, just a gentle smile.

A gentleman never hurts a lady's feelings.


Eshpecially after a shmack or two.

[Ninja Realist]

Just be honest. It is all you can do.

[AlphaDelphic]

Start being as unattractive as possible. I suggest farting and wofting it towards her face, talking about a rash on the base of your dong, pick your nose and eat your boogers while telling her it's good for the immune system.

[highkicknomore]

Yeah that's also what I'm afraid of, that I might lose her as a friend.

I've been in this situation before and I told her I just wanted to be friends and after that, she just stopped talking to me.

[J AveryCrawford]

Originally Posted by highkicknomore

That's the problem, I've already treated her like she's in the friend zone but she keeps on trying.

Find a girl friend or go out with a few girls and let her know about it. She will get the message.