[daniel crawley]

Bro, I had drinking binge's last longer then 2 months when I was 18. I wouldn't worry to much. She probally just wants to say hi...and maybe go for a walk?

[Amnesiac]

dude she may not have even added you on purpose. Some people just get facebook to send out friend requests to people in their contact list. Your e-mail is probably still there and that's why you got an invite.

[TheHegemon1]

Originally Posted by Cafu

Add her but don't message her, if she messages you then make it short and to the point with a gap of a couple days before replying.

If you don't add her she will in her mind think you have a problem with her or don't like her.

Sound advice

Pretty much what I did with a long time ex on my facebook

[stu3ufc]

Originally Posted by Attyman

hahaha my social anxieties are long gone, but yes i do have a habit of analyzing everything.

maybe your doing tht right now


just say hi

[Voltaire]

Originally Posted by Attyman

We were together for 2 months back when we were 18. I was starting to have self esteem and social anxiety problems and pushed her away, it hurt her bad. She's engaged with a baby boy now. Believe it or not I actually feel happy for her, but I don't want to talk to her. That's in the past and that's where it should stay?

So should I just ignore it?

No, go with it. Hopefully both of you have grown up and moved on in your life. Had something similar happen to me, my first love at 14 added me as a friend and it was kinda cool to see what direction life had taken her, we're both 43.

[MPS]

lol dude when most ppl get facebook they add everyone on their msn list or w/e u use, i dont talk to tons of ppl on my facebook, your reading way to much into this.

[Wedgebuster]

As Slick Rick once said, "Most girls with kids done been hit in they ass before." That ought to answer your ?

[Serial Crusher]

Don't let her add you. She probably won't notice, and if she dose then who cares, she's got a kid? Its your facebook account.

[Wrestler133]

my first gf from high school added me on myspace a month ago after years of not talking after she broke up with me for no apparent reason, and then told me the reason she broke up with me was because it was a dare in which she won 100 bucks, fucking slut

[Sweet_Leaf]

Add, get back into her life

and get the kids to call you daddy.