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Old 07-09-2008, 07:45 AM   #1 (permalink)

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My first girlfriend added me on Facebook.

We were together for 2 months back when we were 18. I was starting to have self esteem and social anxiety problems and pushed her away, it hurt her bad. She's engaged with a baby boy now. Believe it or not I actually feel happy for her, but I don't want to talk to her. That's in the past and that's where it should stay?

So should I just ignore it?
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Old 07-09-2008, 07:49 AM   #2 (permalink)
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I would say hello and tell her you are happy for her.
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Old 07-09-2008, 07:52 AM   #3 (permalink)
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over analyzing a simple situation like this, especially to the point of post about it on sherdog for advice will just add to your social anxieties.

i agree with endurance
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Old 07-09-2008, 07:54 AM   #4 (permalink)

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hahaha my social anxieties are long gone, but yes i do have a habit of analyzing everything.
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Old 07-09-2008, 07:55 AM   #5 (permalink)

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Post pics & my advice will help you for sure!
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Old 07-09-2008, 07:56 AM   #6 (permalink)

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No, she was fairly plan looking, and loks a lil worse now with the kid.
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No, she was fairly plan looking, and loks a lil worse now with the kid.
Let us judge for ourselves. PLEASEEEEE
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Old 07-09-2008, 08:33 AM   #8 (permalink)

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Add her but don't message her, if she messages you then make it short and to the point with a gap of a couple days before replying.

If you don't add her she will in her mind think you have a problem with her or don't like her.
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Old 07-09-2008, 09:04 AM   #9 (permalink)

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Tell her your proud of her and happy for the way things turned out. Then proceed to say how you are glad she's with someone who wants kids because you personally can't stand the little carpet lizards.
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hopefully she's not 18 with a kid on the way..
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