[camboat]

I'm now dating this girl for 6 months now, and she still wants to save sex for marriage. I CAN'T STAND IT!! Before I we got together, she told me she wants to save sex for marriage, but I was like all girls say that because they dont want to seem like a slut and they want to appear innocent. So I thought she one of those girls or if she wasn't i could somehow change her principles. She turned out to be the second type I describe, and changing her principle is as hard as gonzaga's kick to Crocops head.

I'm just curious how would you guys cope with this situation.

[YeahBee]

Viva Las Vegas

MAn 6 months you have strong feelings for her huh, how old are you?

Personally I wouldn't marry someone if I didn't know wee were sexually compatible

[NMMMAFan]

If it is that big of a problem for you, all you cared about in the first place was gettin laid. So if I were you, I would just ditch here now, because once she puts out you will probably bail anyways.

[Haymaker]

The best way to get sex is to act like you don't care about it. If you put too much emphasis on getting some, the girl with think you're thinking more about yourself and less about her.

That being said, girls who use sex as marriage-bait are bad. Dump her ass and she might even put out.

[Reaper Man]

1) Have you made your intentions clear? If not, you should do so--I had to find out the hard way that you can't just hope it slips in and she's just let it go.

2) What are her reasons for abstaining? If you want to change her mind you might consider attacking the irrational reasons she is holding this belief. You can't attack the sex subject directly--it will just entrench her more.

3) As someone said before--if she is really into you and you make your intentions clear and dump her she might use it to hook you back. However, don't say you broke up with her because you wanted sex and weren't getting it, say something to the effect of "there just wasn't any passion in the relationship". She'll know what it means, but won't attribute it to you being a selfish, single-minded asshole.

4) Also how old are you/is she? If you guys are younger than 18 I don't really think it is that big of a deal. I think it is good for girls to wait until they're emotionally ready to handle it.

Also come to grips with the fact that there's a damn good chance she won't change. Then you have to decide what was more important. I can tell you for sure, I am not dating a girl who doesn't put out ever again.

[Reaper Man]

Originally Posted by Haymaker

The best way to get sex is to act like you don't care about it. If you put too much emphasis on getting some, the girl with think you're thinking more about yourself and less about her.

That being said, girls who use sex as marriage-bait are bad. Dump her ass and she might even put out.

Yeah, girls know that when a guy doesn't fool around with them for awhile, it means disinterest is setting it. If you progress to a certain stage, make it clear you want sex and then start easing off, not fooling around with her any more, she might actually go for it.

[camboat]

We're both 20 years old. I'll try your advice and let you know how it turns out. Does it help that she's Persian?

[camboat]

Originally Posted by Reaper Man

Yeah, girls know that when a guy doesn't fool around with them for awhile, it means disinterest is setting it. If you progress to a certain stage, make it clear you want sex and then start easing off, not fooling around with her any more, she might actually go for it.

How long is awhile and how long should i give her the cold shoulder?

[Eric O]

IF you have anal she will still have her hymen. Plus you don't have to worry about getting her pregnant.

Work that angle for a month or so. Add some alcohol and cocaine into the equation.

[Alcoholica]

Are we talking no sex as in no pussy? Or no sex as in NOTHING, no bj's, no hand action, no anything sexual. If this is the case you need to dump her.