[Fiction]

Originally Posted by HUNTERMANIA!!!

I agree completely with you Superbeast. I think the whole "game" of being an asshole is fucking stupid, and while I realize that I should do it to get laid all the time, I don't want too.

I don't know why I don't want too, but I can't make myself do it. It's fucking frustrating because women are idiots when it comes to picking out what's good for them and what isn't (maybe they just can't help it).

No they can't help it and neither can you. Everyone wants what they can't have on level or another. Women are sexual, emotional creatures.

[Foolkiller]

I think there is something to be said for women wanting to be subservient on one level but wanting equal treatment and respect at the same time so it's hard for me to maintain my view of them as a peer.

I had a long relationship with a woman 6 years my senior where we lived together, she cooked for me, cleaned up, did my washing and ironing and other stuff that I didn't actually ASK her to do (though I did appreciate her doing it) but wanted to be treated with full respect and total care as an equal.

In my mind if she truly wanted to be treated equally she'd have done her thing, I'd have done mine and we'd have just gone about our own business and commitments, only doing something when asked directly or as a favour. I don't know about any of you other guys, but I found it hard to maintain the same amount of respect for her that I had before we got into a serious relationship, simply because she went out of her way to do chores our old housekeeper did.

Other times I have been looked to to provide a shoulder to cry on for their family problems, to back them up against others even over trivial matters when I haven't actually agreed with them, as some sort of fashion consultant when I'm of the mindset you should get what you want rather than what others might recommend...

I was watching Chris Rock's Bigger And Blacker the other night and as funny as it was, there was a lot of truth in what he was saying in relation to men and women.

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Originally Posted by Superbeast

Well I pursue what I enjoy doing and what I will be able to reap rewards from without negative consequences. But with women that's not something I've found to be possible in the long run. Too much drama comes about.

When I was pissed off and bitter a few years back between like 17-20, I had a revolving door policy but I got tired of trying to keep track of names and manage my shit without getting caught. Was it fun? Yup. Did I feel it was really the right thing to do? No, but I was more concerned with bragging to my buds about how I managed to pack in three women in one Saturday and a fourth Sunday afternoon rather than giving a shit about anyone's feelings or any consequences.

However I've kind of burned myself to an extent. It's the whole ice cream analogy, you can have all kinds of flavours and varieties but eventually you get sick of ice cream completely for a while. I think that's what's happened with me and women. I think turning two girls dyke as a result of my assholesque behaviour may have factored in to a lack of drive to plough through bitches. Guilt can be a mindfucker. Just before anyone asks, no, they didn't dyke out with each other, unfortunately. Otherwise I'd have made sure to get a tape of that.



Partially, yes. I know you have to treat them mean to keep them keen at times but I'd rather not be an arsehole these days at all. I'd rather just do my thing, have fun and try not to hurt or piss off anybody unless it's necessary. I know a dude 6 years my senior in a similar spot as me so I'm not alone on this. I mean, don't get me wrong, I go out with a chick now and then, went out with one last Wednesday in fact, but I just find so many to be cookie cutter clones who ain't worth the effort or all the interesting ones have problems I don't want to have to help them deal with or hear about. It's like every girl with a degree these days has more self induced bullshit and drama than a WB show.

How did you turn those girls into lesbians? Homosexuality is nature not nurture.

[Foolkiller]

Being a seriously selfish evil angst ridden bastard sonuvabitch.

Now, don't get me wrong, I am aware that on the whole lesbianism and homosexuality are down a genetics and the behaviour exhibited in later life is largely dependent on their environment growing up... but if you hadn't noticed in recent years lesbianism is more and more an optional avenue for women to go down, pardon the pun. It's like straight chicks getting drunk and messing with each other at parties or women in their early twenties/thirties claiming to be bisexual when they actually prefer men.

It has to be noted I don't know any bisexual guys. I know some gay dudes, some lesbians, a bunch of bisexual girls who think bisexuality means finding other women attractive and kissing their mates when they are drunk... but no guys that swing both ways. I know one guy that has had gay experiences but he prefers women these days so I'm not sure about him. I'd put it down to teenage desperation in his case. Now he's tall, his skin has cleared up and he's got in shape from kickboxing so he has steady flow of bitches.