Misogynism

**Foolkiller** · 09-01-2006, 10:14 PM

I'm find that as time goes by, the nicer I am, the more my kindness is taken for weakness, the sooner things sour for me with the fairer sex. When I was younger I treated women with little respect and regard and had a greater amount of success and turnaround in terms of bedroom activity. At some point I started feeling guilt and began treating women as I'd like to be treated. I haven't had a truly successful relationship since.

It's been said the teenage years are an awaking period, 20s are an experimenting period, thirties are a realisation period and 40s are a maturation/brooding perioid. I feel almost like I had so much fun in my teens and have became so cynical as a result of my experiences what I should be doing I am not interested in carrying out because I know the regular routine of relationships at this point. It's kind of disappointing. Nothing and no one surprises me anymore. Every other bitch is a cut and past facsimile of woman from my past I've already dealt with and learnt from. I am rarely surprised and almost expect disappointment due to the predictability of women my age in England. I could probably score more if I didn't have as much self esteem and self respect, but I enjoy a challenge... however none are present anymore.

Am I too cynical and unmotivated or appropriately jaded but missing the boat?

Discuss.

dreadedothrside · 09-02-2006, 12:54 AM

This is a welcome return to the threads that made Mayberry...well whatever it was before the influx of religion threads.

Maybe you're being too cynical, but I haven't been where you are yet, relationshipwise, or geographically.

Fiction · 09-02-2006, 01:41 AM

Superbeast, I think a lot of it is about what you want at this point in your life. A serious relationship? Marriage material? A freak? Maybe juggle more than one woman?

Years ago I used to be nice to girls, a real gentleman. It got me laid here and there but overall I wasn't satisfied with my game. I got jaded and gradually took on a whole new approach. I became a dick. Yes a misogynist prick. I wouldn't give girls the time of day and I would poke fun at them a lot in converstaion. Degrade them in humorous fashion. If they asked me out I would say no or laugh at them. Now at this time I was not looking for a relationship, just sex. I started getting laid all the time and it was great. Also the cool thing was that I was spending way less money and putting far less effort into it. It was a no lose situation. The funny thing I learned about this approach was that it worked well for all kinds of women. I found a really nice and intelligent girlfriend at one point. A freak at another point. Older women. Young ones. They are all the same dude. Something in them likes it when they can't get what they want and are shunned. Anyways enough of me rambling.

Bas Rutten Gear · 09-02-2006, 02:09 AM

Like attacts like. If you think that being nice means women will treat you poorly/not take you seriously enough, then you will attract that into your life. If you think that you will have women falling all over you, then you will. That is why cocky and confident guys get a lot of girls.

Mens Rea · 09-02-2006, 04:30 AM

If you're in your 40's you should be dating women in their late 20's/early 30's. They will appreciate a guy who has his shit together.

Are you looking for marriage?

**Foolkiller** · 09-02-2006, 06:37 AM

Far from it. I'm looking for a decent woman. But it seems that to get a woman you want you have to do the whole 4 year old kid action of being mean because you like them thing.

I've had freaks. I've had slightly older women. I've had crazy young energetic types. I'd had athletic tennis players to goth fetish models. I've had rail thin girls and girls with enough curves to have awesome tits and nice asses. I've had rich bitch diplomats daughters and down on their luck former actresses. Women with kids and women with independent lifestyles funded by high paying professions in the legal field. I've ran the gamut and in doing so I have worn myself out and realised the standard that runs throughout all women 16-40.

I am a nice guy in real life and no longer harbour the teenage angst I once had to allow me to be a prick. My maturity has basically ruined my whole game. I no longer have the ignorance to willfully treat a woman maliciously even if I have the wisdom to realise it's partially necessary for me to have a chance with them. While I understand it's par for the course, in my mind it is also illogical.

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Like attacts like. If you think that being nice means women will treat you poorly/not take you seriously enough, then you will attract that into your life. If you think that you will have women falling all over you, then you will

It's not what I think, it's what the last 8 years have led me to believe to be true. I'm sure in other parts of the world the rules of play are different but as for where I am and who I am surrounded by, I'd honestly rather hang with some buds, go training and get some porn rather than run through the routine of relationships as I know them based off my experiences for the odd night out, odd night in and lazy Sunday in bed while having to constantly comfort, validate and eliminate her feelings and insecurities.

Jay Pan ROKK · 10:44 AM

Our happiness is focused on women, in a sense women control men ...

I serve them with most respect, i dont mind take advantage sometimes ...

Rhythmic · 09-02-2006, 11:01 AM

Everything you are saying in your post is explained and summed up nicely in the Hookup culture series of essays.

I really suggest you give them a read as it will REALLY put everything in perspective.

http://www.sendspace.com/file/d18ztv

I went though something very similar to what you just typed in your first post. Except I am still in my 20s. Gender relationships as a whole are on the decline for multiple reasons. Give the Hookup culture essays a read. Trust me.

While I am at it. I might as well stick this link here too.
http://eternalbachelor.blogspot.com/

Rhythmic · 09-02-2006, 11:02 AM

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Originally Posted by Jay Pan ROKK

Our happiness is focused on women.

Only weak willed men have their happiness and identity focused into women/pussy.

Jay Pan ROKK · 09-02-2006, 11:26 AM

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Originally Posted by Rhythmic

Only weak willed men have their happiness and identity focused into women/pussy.

Well, this type of weak willed men make up almost all men in the world !

Why do you think women sell cars and beers ?

I am not complaining you know ...