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03-28-2007, 10:02 PM
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Banned
Join Date: Mar 2007
Location: So Cal
Posts: 1,797
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You need to get out and do some college partying. Get drunk and meet drunk girls.
You cannot let women, directly or indirectly, affect your life choices. Especially at such a young age. Don't join the military. Stay in school. Pass your classes. Party it up and get laid as much as you can. Do not seek out another girlfriend for at least a few years.
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03-28-2007, 10:07 PM
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#12 (permalink)
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Brown Belt
Join Date: Sep 2002
Posts: 3,429
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If a girl doesn't want to be with you, then there's nothing you could do. Like others have said, there are alot of girls out there. I think the best thing right now is to prepare for the next stage of your life. That is to graduate college and get a stable career. Things will come whenever you're stable and have a good job
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03-28-2007, 10:09 PM
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White Belt
Join Date: Mar 2007
Posts: 108
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First off dont join the military. I sure as shit would'nt. My advice, go out and bag a few hoowers and go from there. TIME, is the only thing that will completly solve what your feelin . Get busy living or get busy dying. Good Luck.
P.S. Alchohol wont hurt either.
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03-28-2007, 10:24 PM
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King of the Jungle
Join Date: Apr 2004
Posts: 5,101
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Originally Posted by jdb487
here we go... i had this girlfriend who i was in love with.. she also loved me. when we started college she moved to go to siue. and i went to a juco about 10 miles away from her because my cousin lived there... well, recently we broke up(i guess the only reason was because we were spending too much time together) and she says it wont work out now because she doesnt think i am the right man for her to be with for the rest of her life... i have never really done my homework in college but since this i havent done anything but sit on sherdog all day or just be a big pussy and cry...ya,cry.... i want to know what i should do with my life because i feel like i have nothing now... i was thinking about joining the marines to try to get some dicipline and structure in my life... what do you guys think i should do... please dont flame me... thats the last thing i need right now haha
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Chill out. Get over her...however you can - just don't do anything illegal or stupid. If you have to sulk - sulk. But don't do that your whole day. You're probably going to miss out on other things in life. It's a gift, bro. Some people suggested reading. How about running errands for your cousin? How about being a better son to your parents? How about concentrating on school? I'd rethink the military, if I were you. You don't seem sure about it and you just broke up with your girl. The military is a noble profession, but it ain't for everyone. Take care.
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03-28-2007, 11:15 PM
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Orange Belt
Join Date: Apr 2006
Location: Sac
Posts: 354
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One thing you have to realize is that there are plenty of ladies out there. There is no pussy shortage on this planet. The shit stings, I know.
My suggestion is don't do anything drastic that you'll regret later. Keep yourself super busy. Go out with your friends, hit up some bars, clubs, whatever. You'll be on your way before you know it.
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03-28-2007, 11:40 PM
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Bay Area Labs
Join Date: Jan 2007
Posts: 12,795
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Go make a lot of cash, then buy a bunch of high priced whores....
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03-29-2007, 12:24 AM
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Silver Belt
Join Date: Apr 2005
Location: Los Angeles
Posts: 10,446
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you sound like a big baby. there are plenty of girls out there for you. you just gotta find her.
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03-29-2007, 12:45 AM
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Orange Belt
Join Date: Jan 2007
Location: southern illinois
Posts: 374
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Originally Posted by mahalo
you sound like a big baby. there are plenty of girls out there for you. you just gotta find her.
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yes i have been acting like one as of late.
but thanks for the advice everybody
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03-29-2007, 01:25 AM
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Purple Belt
Join Date: Mar 2007
Posts: 1,526
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Originally Posted by VisionQuest
Seriously, the only thing that will help is time. The best way to pass time is to hang out with other girls....helps you feel better and build your confidence back up.
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He is right. Do your homework, graduate and get a job you want to do. Don't get stuck in a job you hate, it's a waste of your time and life.
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03-29-2007, 02:21 AM
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Silver Belt
Join Date: Jul 2006
Location: OBX, NORTH CAROLINA
Posts: 10,546
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you just have to think that theres 6 billion chicks for you to chose from just get outta the house and do your thing no matter how much you dont want to
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