[Gene Tunney]

Read military books, write poetry, smoke refer. Exercise and Expand your mind. Fuck, join a yoga class or buy a ps3. There's a million things in the States to keep you occupied.

[KrazyKanadian]

i have no idea what you would do, cause i would never in my life, for any amount of money (i mean that) join the military.


welll....maybe in a time of peace

[Bounz]

im in the same page as you bro, i just got out of tech school and going to my base next week (lucky for me the base i got was 30miles from where i live)

i miss being in the base, curfews and getting chewed by mtls, heck i even miss marching and being a road guard

[massgrunt]

Hey bro, it's normal. I've been out for years and I still miss my platoon. After spending years with guys that are closer than brothers, it's tough to adjust. But you will.

[Benzine87]

Have you thought of joining a law enforcement agency or something similar to get some of the comeradery/routine back into your life?

[Triple-s]

I think becoming "softer" just means your becoming normal again.

[MPS]

Originally Posted by halfmoon_

Ive been on active duty in the US Army for the last 6 months and im finally home, some things have changed like moving to a diff house a few miles away nothing too different. I still live with my parents and i'm 22. I went out to the bar the first friday I was home and and had a great time, made out with a bunch of girls had alot of confidence and wanted to truely have fun which I did.

Well I've been home for about a week now and things are strting to settle, I still have my military discipline and i'm awaiting a possible deployment. Besides that though I've lost all the desire to live wild and have fun like the first few days I was home.

I miss all the guys at the barracks, all the guys that got picked on including myself. Just missing being one of the guys. Now that I'm home I'm feeling like im getting softer and softer each passing day and I'm getting worried. When i first got back and while on active duty I would see other guys and putem in a choke hold or just whatever, when i passed by females I would laugh and what not cause they are weak little things. Now i''m starting to feel like a pussy again. WTF do I DO WITH MYSELF!

I'm thinking about joining a BJJ gym nearby and getting into it, hopefully to get that attitude back. I don't know why I feel like i'm getting softer but I can tell. I'm getting paranoid of people again and going back to my old ways. I must do something now. Anyone been in this kind of position before? Even on different terms.. Discuss

hahaha, your fuckin weird dude, you laugh chicks because they're weak? and wanna put random ppl in choke holds? stay in the army bro you sound like youve got some issues

[halfmoon_]

I dont have issues guy, it was a happy type of aggressiveness. I treat ladies with respect, they are just not intimidating sexually.