its funny how girls think

gracie_barra · 09-17-2007, 04:01 AM

about 8 months ago i met a 7/10 and being horny/desperate i asked her out. she came up with an excuse (cant remember anymore). 2 weeks later i ask her again and another excuse. so i stopped trying. i blocked her on msn and didnt call. she didnt call me or anything, and sometimes i unblock her and sign on and she never talks to me. well yesterday was my 2nd date with a girl i recently met and i encounter the first girl in the mall. i saw hi and she acted surprised and 'happy' to see me. we made some small talk, asked about what was going on in each other's lives and so on. i introduced her to this new girl and we went along on our merry way.

tonight she adds me on facebook , somehow finding me. writes on my wall saying that im never online on msn , do i have a new email?". i told her i just dont sign in that much (which is a lie cuz i have her blocked 24/7). she replies, o i havent seen u in so long..we gotta hang out sometime! maybe next weekend or something, u totally have to come to this party!'

such a phony niceness. something tells me that all this was set in motion cuz she met my new girl. fucking women...always wanting what they cant have.

FDPN · 09-17-2007, 04:11 AM

What more can anyone say on the subject?

If you had a wedding ring she'd be after you 10 times harder.

Skyline21 · 09-17-2007, 04:23 AM

This is nothing new. Thats women for you. Thats the sort of thging that makes u wonder if ur better off stayin single.

IRS · 09-17-2007, 04:33 AM

You are over reacting.

Adding you on facebook does not mean she 'wants' you.

Ian Coe · 09-17-2007, 05:17 AM

^^^

Also true

She could like my ex add you just to turn her status 4 days later from single to in a relationship with someone I could snap like a twig (who also adds you about the same time she does.....whats the point in that one)

Forbidden fruit angle

Robert LL · 09-17-2007, 07:37 AM

Keep thinking it's funny and you'll be fine.
Start thinking it's wrong and you won't get laid.

drostj2 · 09-17-2007, 08:01 AM

the last line sums it all up. It's been like that for ages. It even happens to some dudes.

I.E. Two buddies of mine, buddy A and buddy B, had that same situation with this girl. Buddy A dates the girl and Buddy B always wants to hook up with the girl Buddy B constantly talks about how hot she is and then Buddy A breaks up. Then Buddy B hooks up with her and suddenly doesn't find her that attractive anymore. Then Buddy A and her get back together and Buddy B wants the girl all over again. Weird huh?

bgrizzly98 · 09-17-2007, 08:41 AM

You said it yourself she now wants you because you have someone else. I used to know a girl just like that. Would pull the whole "were just friends" card until I was dating someone else, then she would try to butt into the relationship saying we need to hang out more.

Also why do you think It's so easy to meet other women when you're with someone?

UA34 · 09-17-2007, 10:51 AM

fucking girls, i noticed that girls look at guys more when they are with their woman, say walking round at the mall and shit, has any other guy noticed that??

walnut · 09-17-2007, 11:09 AM

In my past experiences women want what other woman have or have validated.
Such as being married(have) or in the company of other woman(validated worth)

you can do 1 of 2 things
try to get in her pants if thats what you want.
or
Keep her around just as a friend to pull other women,just like when you pulled her using another women.

It's always good to have a kick ass girl(FRIEND).Never try to take it farther.
You can mess with her friends but don't get in to a relationship with any of them.
By keeping just girls who u just kick it with you never run out of a steady supply