i`m a little nervous...

Seismos · 08-02-2007, 11:54 AM

fellow sherdoggers, i told you a week ago that i was asked to show an unknown girl (she is 19) around my town. well, ia agreed but it turned out that she wants to go clubbing/party. i feel like i stumbled into a kind of blind date.

im cool with that but what worries me a little is the fact that ive never been partying one on one with a girl.

-usually i dance with female friends of mine but this time i feel forced to do it correctly....

-i dont know if she drinks...so should i have a few or not?

it sounds a little awkward to go out (to a club) with an unknown person, especially with a girl on a date-like situation.

so, what would you do? (just in case you havent guessed it by now its been a while since my last date...)

Dramacydal · 08-02-2007, 11:58 AM

I remember the other thread.

Dude, chill, it's just like taking any other girl out. Have drinks if you want to have drinks, it sounds like she will definitely be drinking if she can. You say you have female friends, well just treat this as the same sort of situation...

Make sure to take her to a bar first, that way you can have a chat over a few drinks to break the ice so it doesn't feel so awkward .. once you've nailed a few down, just take her where she wants to go.

DonVito25 · 08-02-2007, 11:59 AM

i agree that could be awkward....i always hated going to a club with just another girl that wasnt my girlfriend. What if you get there and she just goes off and tries to meet guys, or does meet a guy...plus it is difficult to converse at clubs, especially dance clubs, due to the noise....

Just remember girls can sense when you feel uncomfortable...go to the bar with confidence, set up shop at a part of the bar and just start talking with confidence...kinda pre plan what you might talk about so you arent like all searching for what to say and you have awkward moments. also i wouldnt treat it as a "date" because you dont know how she is treating it. Just act like you own the town and club but dont come across cocky and you will be all good

goldee · 08-02-2007, 12:01 PM

clubs are good because you can point to things and people and talk about it, booze will loosen you up so have 3 or 4 but not anymore since you may turn into a duche.

Jay Pan ROKK · 08-02-2007, 12:01 PM

Lower your expectations, be nice.

J AveryCrawford · 08-02-2007, 12:06 PM

You are going out with a mystery girl who likes to party. Sounds like a good situation unless she is hideous.

DonVito25 · 08-02-2007, 12:13 PM

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Originally Posted by J AveryCrawford

You are going out with a mystery girl who likes to party. Sounds like a good situation unless she is hideous.

thats what darkness is for

Seismos · 08-02-2007, 12:14 PM

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Originally Posted by Jay Pan ROKK

Lower your expectations, be nice.

jay pan, i really appreciate your posts in general and i like your attitude, but dont we all know that girls dont like "nice guys"?!

AZ103 · 08-02-2007, 12:31 PM

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Originally Posted by Seismos

jay pan, i really appreciate your posts in general and i like your attitude, but dont we all know that girls dont like "nice guys"?!

thats incorrect girls dont like doormat guys they can walk all over. be nice but dont be a pushover

Jay Pan ROKK · 08-02-2007, 12:35 PM

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Originally Posted by Seismos

jay pan, i really appreciate your posts in general and i like your attitude, but dont we all know that girls dont like "nice guys"?!

That maybe true, girls want boys to push them so they can easily say no thanks, haha.

However if you are nervous it may spoil everything, cool down and everything we fall in its right place (i know from self experience that it is easier to post than get into action

).