[SmelMiFingerz]

I have a question for anyone with experience coming out of a really serious relationship and trying to put themselves on the market.

What's the best way to do this? Do you play the whole "I'm just coming out of a serious relationship" card, do you take it easy, do you get a rebound chick, do you ease back into girls? Should you get a new girlfriend right away?

I just want to know the best route so that I don't get into a bad cycle and hate girls and lose my respect for them for the rest of my life.

[KentPeters]

Don't jump back into something because its the easy thing to do, take it slow and play the game ... try not to talk about the old relationship with any new girls or you could turn them from a fling to a friend quick

[ElbowsBlazing]

ease into it, and definatly dont bring up the ex, or the fact that you just got out of a relationship. take the lessons you learned from the old relationship and apply them to the next

[JungleDNB]

Yeah avoid launching into a sympathy party. That shit turns girls off real quick.

[K MAC]

Just forget about it and play the field for a while. Have fun while the ball and chain is off.

[PD2K]

I just play it buy ear. I never go into thinking about a relationship-- just happens if you find the right girl.

[GoldenPanda]

Originally Posted by K MAC

Just forget about it and play the field for a while. Have fun while the ball and chain is off.

hes got the right idea

go crazy and have some meaningless relationships, you'll forget about the bad times

then you'll get bored and want to settle down and thats when you'll find a good girl

[movandam23]

I am still a virgin

[The Jake]

Originally Posted by ElbowsBlazing

ease into it, and definatly dont bring up the ex, or the fact that you just got out of a relationship. take the lessons you learned from the old relationship and apply them to the next

Pretty much.

Ease in slowly. Chicks smell desperation as quickly as they smell validation (ie. hit on you when you are already with someone).

Or alternatively, get drunk + high, hit the clubs and raves and sooner or later, you'll be rolling in poon.

- J.

[Eric O]

The more I brought up the fact that I just got out of a 4 year relationship the more girls wanted to marry me.

Meet new girls, wait for them to ask you. Then talk about it. Don't bring it up.

Don't get stuck in a new relationsip until you're over you last one.

It took me over a year and a half.