[Pillbox Joe]

Originally Posted by The MMaster

We are sexing it often though.

doesn't sound like a break then

[boxing_kangaroo]

Originally Posted by The MMaster

There is obviously other issues besides just the one issue with the friends to be honest.

She lives about 30 miles away and drives down to visit me every weekend depending on my schedule and when I'm available, she brings me groceries and such, she takes care of me when I'm ill etc. so she's good to me.She's just a bit moody and sensitive which to the best of my understanding is every female.

you can get a fatty to do these things for you with a few added extras....she'll blow you when you want and with extra enthusiam as she'll want to impress you so you keep her around and she wont be moody and sensitive around you as she knows it'll be the end of her. least this way you'll call the shots and will be able to do what you want when you want....

[Theprospect26]

Shit happened with me once. I was with a girl for almost 3 years and I go to her house 1 day and she tells me out of nowhere that she needs to take a break.

So after a month of taking a break and her acting like we're just friends she calls me and tells me that she doesn't think it's gonna work out. I tell her "good, cause I moved on a while ago". At this point I had started seeing some dominican nympho. Anyway, we stayed on good terms and as payback for that 1 month break I decided to take my dominican sex addict to my ex girl's sisters wedding.......aaaah, good times.

About a month later, she calls me crying on the phone talking about how much she misses me and she realized that i'm the perfect guy for her. I told her it's too late and to go take a hike.

[David Koresh]

Call her and break up with her asap like someone already said.

You're only 21, you owe it to yourself to move on and experience other people. She is obviously having serious doubts anyways and probably seeing someone else as well.

Dump her now. Trust me, you'll look back in a few years and realize it was a smart move.

[Gene Tunney]

You know the best place to meet babes? The grocery store , that's where you where the chicks. You don't have to put up with that kind of attitude. Girls want guys, and theres billions of them. Why be with one that makes one unhappy? Just start talking to random babes.

[David Koresh]

The bottom line is that she is tired of you and doesn't fully appreciate you. Is this really the type of person you want to be with?

IMO, a good gf holds enough value for her partner not to kick him to the curb on a whim.

There are words for guys who stay in these types of relationships and beg women to be with them...

[Theprospect26]

Originally Posted by David Koresh

Call her and break up with her asap like someone already said.

You're only 21, you owe it to yourself to move on and experience other people. She is obviously having serious doubts anyways and probably seeing someone else as well.

Dump her now. Trust me, you'll look back in a few years and realize it was a smart move.

This dude speaks the truth. If she ALREADY wants a break then,

A) She's seeing or is digging someone else
B) She's getting tired of you and doubting she wants to be with you.


Either way, it's a really bad sign and time for you to move on. There's plenty of fish in the sea bro. You don't need that bullshit. Move on and find a woman who KNOWS that she wants you.

[TKMaxx715]

im going to have to go with the others here. It might seem stupid and you dont want to just blow it off but its probably going to happen sooner or later. This way you dont have to go through the bullshit motions that you already know the ends to.

Of course there could be some underlying factor that you havent mentioned to us yet but then... why didnt you? Seems like kind of an excuse to make your relationship sound better than it is going right now. Not trying to be a dick just giving it to ya straight up

If anything i would just be whatever with the break... see what she wants while trying to get with other girls on the side. That way if she wants you back you can still have her (dont think its a good idea but ill toss you a bone) and if not then you will prolly have a backup chick by then

[Horus]

I can definitely say that if you are fighting in the first two months, it aint gunna work. Thats the time when you are most into each other and overlook each others shortcomings.

To me it appears she regrets being with you and she may be thinking that she has made the wrong choice and you have little in common.

I agree the break up is coming. Or at least, your relationship is going to be miserable. Its not personal, I think that her attraction to you early on either clouded some personality traits she should have considered. Or maybe you were 'gap filler', ie, mr right now, until something better comes along. She may see you has high maintenance as well (she has already cared for you being sick in the opening months?). I don't think she's had the fun she wants to be having.

She is now giving you the signals to be a man for her and show her that you respect yourself and end it. Otherwise, misery awaits.

[TX911]

she's banging some other dude now buddy. Move on