[KING METEOR]

Move on to your life asap , do not lose any time while she figure if you suit her needs .

My advice to you is to look around and begin to hunt another girl already , it's important than you stay emotionally independent and take the leads .

[SpacePotato]

One. And she dumped me a month later. Just sayin...

[1000 yrd. stare]

Originally Posted by The MMaster

We are sexing it often though.

Dude, I know this is hard, but your 21, you're hardly a grown up. Screw this chick as much as you can and then go find another chick to screw before you are old enough to marry. By the way, you can prolong the "sexing" part (as you put it) by treating her like total shit. Girls love being treated like shit at that age, as a matter of act, they don't grow out of it until their 30s. So just hump her and put up a video of it in this forum. Thanks, take care.

[NHB7]

Isn't going to work, but it isn't your fault or her fault.

I use to have a girlfriend that got all but hurt if I wasn't a great mingler with her friends, but I'm not that guy. I'm not rude, but in a party situation I'm not Mr. Everyone wants to know me guy.

I've been with other girls since and it is so much more relaxing to be in a relationship where I can go to her friends parties, feel shy, she comes up says "are you okay" I say "I'm fine...or I want to go home" and she says, "Great" or "Okay, I'll see you at home in a few hours."

Vice versa is nice to. I've been with a girl who got butt hurt when I was at a party and she wasn't my center of attention. Its much nicer to be at a party and mingle with my budds and check in on my girl every so often. And if she wants to go, she can go and not be all resentful about it.

I know it probably hurts to lose this girl, but you can try to needlessly make it work and find out for yourself, or just realize you two probably aren't compatible and move on.

By the way, even in my worst relationship ever (and it was awful) I never had a girl need a break before two months.

[Killed by Death]

Originally Posted by Theprospect26

Shit happened with me once. I was with a girl for almost 3 years and I go to her house 1 day and she tells me out of nowhere that she needs to take a break.

So after a month of taking a break and her acting like we're just friends she calls me and tells me that she doesn't think it's gonna work out. I tell her "good, cause I moved on a while ago". At this point I had started seeing some dominican nympho. Anyway, we stayed on good terms and as payback for that 1 month break I decided to take my dominican sex addict to my ex girl's sisters wedding.......aaaah, good times.

About a month later, she calls me crying on the phone talking about how much she misses me and she realized that i'm the perfect guy for her. I told her it's too late and to go take a hike.

fuckin nice, this is how more men should be.

[StuffLikeThat]

This is true forced loneliness, bro. Move on. lol

[NHB7]

Originally Posted by Jim J

There are going to be a lot of times in your personal and professional life where you are going to be surrounded by people you don't really know. Sitting in the corner and "texting your friends" is not socially acceptable behavior. It is flat out rude. If my wife pulled that shit while at one of my friend’s birthday parties, I'd be pretty pissed off.

You were in the wrong. If you really like the chick, you should apologize and try to be more social next time you are around her friends.

Give us a break. I'm dating a girl right now that feels extremely shy in public settings. I don't get pissed at her for not mingling. She's shy. No one gets mad about it either. She is also a teacher. so just because she is shy in a given setting doesn't mean it impairs her whole life. This guy is allowed to feel shy around a group of strangers. As long as he is not intentionally being an asshole or talking shit about them behind their backs, he did nothing wrong.

The only thing I would have done different in your situation TS, was when she asked me if I wanted to leave with her now I would have said, "I like your friends, they all seem like nice people, but I'll be honest, I feel a little shy around them and uncomfortable at the time. I might head home but I don't want to wreck your night. Why don't you stay here and have a good time and I'll meet up with you later." If she can't handle that, she is too immature to be in a relationship.

[mister]

She wants to see other people during that break. Do it too.