Have I been Friend Zone'd?

sam9377 · 11:56 PM

Met this girl. Made out on multiple occasions (nothing further than second bsae). Went out on a date. Said that things were going too fast and that she only wants to "casual date" (whatever that means?). Says she wants to slow things down. Says she wants to start out as "friends" first. Invites me to her house to watch a movie a few days later....

Does this sound like I've been friend zone'd? I get this awful, awful feeling that it does for some reason...and no I am 100% sure she didn't invite me to her house to fuck.

Estemachine · 09-25-2008, 11:53 PM

I wouldn't think so, I mean you already hoked up with her. Now if instead she would've denied you from the beginning then you are friend zoned.

sam9377 · 09-25-2008, 11:54 PM

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Originally Posted by Estemachine

I wouldn't think so, I mean you already hoked up with her. Now if instead she would've denied you from the beginning then you are friend zoned.

Made an edit, had to add an important line.

She says she wants to be "friends" first.

bal541 · 09-25-2008, 11:57 PM

she might have trust issues, maybe burned before. GO FOR IT, USE A CONDOM.

EddieH4444 · 09-25-2008, 11:57 PM

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Originally Posted by sam9377

Made an edit, had to add an important line.

She says he wants to be "friends" first.

Freudian slip, you're gay.
J/K, I have nothing useful to add. Sorry and good luck

edit: Damn, you edited it you sly son of a bitch.

nemesis42 · 09-26-2008, 12:05 AM

I agree with Estemachine your probably not friend zoned if you to hooked up a few times already she actually might want to take things slow

balance · 09-26-2008, 12:16 AM

What if she did invite you over for some fuck? You'd probably just make out with her. Here's a little hint to getting laid: you actually have to take some clothes off.

ShogunOOORAH · 09-26-2008, 12:18 AM

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Originally Posted by bal541

she might have trust issues, maybe burned before. GO FOR IT, DONT USE A CONDOM.

If she gets pregnant tell her to friends zone that shit

**Will Jacobs** · 09-26-2008, 12:19 AM

Not yet, but you are in the danger zone.

Don't be pushy, act like you're having a great time the next time she calls you, like things couldn't be better, say you can't hang out (even if you can) a few times. Then call her back a few days later and offer to see her.

Also...is it possible she got a bad impression from sub-par making out abilities?

gsp12 · 09-26-2008, 12:37 AM

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Originally Posted by bal541

she might have trust issues, maybe burned before. GO FOR IT, USE A CONDOM.

who needs a condom when you can pull out