[Fedor#1]

Originally Posted by girl/fightfan

do not - i repeat, do NOT - ask her again where the relationship stands or how she feels about you, or "us", or anything else like that for a long time. girls hate insecurity worse than b.o. we can smell it on you like a dog!

she is not shutting you down. just be yourself and have fun and show her how much of a cool guy you would be to go out with. she'll either go out with you or she won't. over-analysing the situation will not help!

that is correct i tried that shit before girl said mixed feelings

[Max_Power]

Originally Posted by cheese7668

When you pick her up bring her a dozen red roses b/c they mean friendship.

i thought it was pink?

damn thats prolly why i failed last time..

[Ncharge]

Originally Posted by bweaver

We get along very good and I really thought that she liked me, I def liked her.

That was your first mistake.

Originally Posted by bweaver

We talked about where we stood with eachother and I told her I was interested in her and if things progressed past friends that would be great.

And that was the kiss of death.

[DeathNTaxes]

Well you put the "where we stand shit on the table"

NEVER do that.

Now when you hang out with her get the drunk on and make a move. If she's rejects you buzzed then be gone and be done.

Don't spend too much money either...natty ice will do the trick!

[champaulion]

thats TFL for ya bitch!

[Greg Lyon]

Maybe shes not interested and is trying to be nice about it

[machine29]

Lot of girls feed that line so they arent obligated to have sex or give head or something.

Its basically, we will go out and if i like u I might go further etc etc.

[fingercuffs]

As soon as you started discussing your wussy "feelings" was when you lost her.
A guy I'd only been dating a week sent me roses on my birthday and I had to break it off because he got all needy about me wanting to go out with my friends as planned.
Women don't like that shit, mate. You fucked up, so move onto the next and put it behind you.

[Jay Pan ROKK]

Hmm, i have no idea, dont push her now though.

[viruswitshoes]

its too late buddy.

take it from someone who's been friendzoned many times, if you're alone for the first time and nothing happens, then move on. I'm not talking about sex, I'm talking about obvious displays of affection. Girls will let you know that they like you, even the shy ones.

They give clues.

They laugh at your jokes, even the stupid ones. They play with their hair. They bite their lip. They look for excuses to sit close.

A girl that just wants to be friends, doesn't like you per say, they like the attention. They like being able to be around a guy without the sexual tension (on their part). They know they'll never sleep with you anyways.

Sure there are some exceptions to the rule. Mostly when you start dating a friend of hers. Girls are as territorial as men after all. But, this isn't the movies. The movies are ass backwards about attraction. You know how action movies are rediculous and never based on reality? well, so are romantic comedies.

So, if you want a girl to like you, you have to know that in your mind, you are superior to her in every way. I'm not saying you have to be a dick, you just have to know that the sun doesn't shine around her ass. Girls have sex with men and are attracted to them because the man displays dominance in the relationship. Its in their nature to want to reproduce with the strongest of the herd. So any hints that you have alpha males characteristics (whether true or not) and she'll be all over you.

If you're not displaying those characteristics and she still likes you, then she's a manipulative and controlling bitch who will wreck your life one way or another.

at any rate, good luck dude. women aren't the enemy and they're not bitches. they are just wired differently then men. they have different roles in nature than we do and are therefore attracted to men for different reasons. once you accept this fact, you'll be a lot better off, trust me.