[MeBig]

Originally Posted by Juelz Bandana

No I was just thinking about the part where you said, "since you've already expressed how you love spending time with her and she is teh greatest, I would recommend leaving her before she REALLY fucks you up."

I've expressed how I love spending time with my girlfriend and she's the greatest. We were watching The Real World the other night and two of the cast members kissed and neither of them were single when they did it and then they had to tell their boyfriend and girlfriend what they did and my girlfriend said "I don't think kissing is cheating" I didn't say anything, I just kinda thought to myself, what? Wow. And I'm really attached to this girl too but your advice is right, "leave her before she REALLY fucks you up."

I agree with you. I never get angry, never have arguments with girls I'm dating, never tell them what I expect of them. I just enjoy the sex, take in everything that happens as far as their words and actions, and make my resolutions. When you regulate them, then you're seeing the censored version of who they really are, and it's hard enough to make an objective decision about what to make of a girl you're seeing as it is, nevermind having to deal with fronts.
It makes for more confusion from them when I tell them I'm no longer interested but it makes more sense for me to cut off hanging out with who they are than to continue spending time with who they're not. If I see there's no future in the relationship, and I can honestly tell myself that I am not emotionally attached to the girl nor will I be, then i continue to have sex with them....otherwise it's peace.

[Matrix389]

this might sound very OT, but see what she's willing to do to make it up to you...

go for the butt.

[Shabba Ranks]

Originally Posted by Ncharge

Well that settles it, she's definitely a keeper then.

AHAHHAHAHhaHahhahahah made my day

[Fedor#1]

Originally Posted by JSN

post pic's so i can make a sound judgement.

I agree with him

[AznTrojan]

dump her ass

[Rinksterk]

If she gives up the ass then keep her around some more until you get sick of her. If you're emotionally attached, then you're fucked.

[LoopyLefty]

Whatever you decide to do, this girl is not girlfriend material and doesn't deserve a serious committed relationship with you. If this happened to one of your friends, I'm sure you wouldn't hesitate to tell him to dump the whore. Now that you've decided to dump her don't regret it and don't get sucked back in by her.

[daniel crawley]

She is definitely a tryflin skeez. Dump her. Just my two cents.

[USS_Logic]

Originally Posted by VulcanRaven

I'll make this story short. I was at work on saturday, and hung out with my girlfriend in the morning. That evening she went out with some friends. I've only been dating this girl for 3 weeks so i don't really know too too much about what she's like.

So she calls me up and says she's in the parking lot of the restaraunt. Said One of the dudes they were with kissed her and she kissed him back for some fucking reason. So she's really upset and shit (or faking it), i get pissed off and call her a whore and hang up on her.

She spent all day today calling and texting and begging me to talk to her. Said it was just a momentary lapse of judgement and all. I don't trust this bitch at all now. Problem is, i actually really like being around her. She's like awesome fun.

I kinda want to forgive her, but am pissed off she would just go and kiss some dude. I mean fuck, its only been 3 weeks.

Oh, and does she get points for walking outside and telling me as soon as it happened? She seems to think she does.

Advice?

She gets no points. She deserves no second change.
You will never be able to trust her. If you want to bang her, don't get attached, use her. Get the fuck out, now.


Cheaters are like alcoholics, if the temptation is absolutely strong enough and they think they can get away with it, they will.

[Juelz Bandana]

Just stop talking to her. Don't even dump her just leave her wondering what happened to you. Never talk to her again, just put her out of your life. Change your number, change the locks or move if you have to.