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Girlfriend kissed another dude. Forgive her?

I'll make this story short. I was at work on saturday, and hung out with my girlfriend in the morning. That evening she went out with some friends. I've only been dating this girl for 3 weeks so i don't really know too too much about what she's like.

So she calls me up and says she's in the parking lot of the restaraunt. Said One of the dudes they were with kissed her and she kissed him back for some fucking reason. So she's really upset and shit (or faking it), i get pissed off and call her a whore and hang up on her.

She spent all day today calling and texting and begging me to talk to her. Said it was just a momentary lapse of judgement and all. I don't trust this bitch at all now. Problem is, i actually really like being around her. She's like awesome fun.

I kinda want to forgive her, but am pissed off she would just go and kiss some dude. I mean fuck, its only been 3 weeks.

Oh, and does she get points for walking outside and telling me as soon as it happened? She seems to think she does.

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Old 07-14-2008, 02:27 AM   #2 (permalink)
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Dump her or hand in your man card
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fuck that dump her you only date her 3 weeks.
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I'd either dump her or just not care and keep dating her. It's been only 3 weeks. That ain't shit really.
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You've got two choices here, live like this the rest of your life or man up and dump the bitch take a pick.
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You've got two choices here, live like this the rest of your life or man up and dump the bitch take a pick.
thats a bit harsh man. I asked my coworkers what they thought, and they think everyone deserves a second chance.

I don't know what i think. Never happened to me before.
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I'll make this story short. I was at work on saturday, and hung out with my girlfriend in the morning. That evening she went out with some friends. I've only been dating this girl for 3 weeks so i don't really know too too much about what she's like.

So she calls me up and says she's in the parking lot of the restaraunt. Said One of the dudes they were with kissed her and she kissed him back for some fucking reason. So she's really upset and shit (or faking it), i get pissed off and call her a whore and hang up on her.

She spent all day today calling and texting and begging me to talk to her. Said it was just a momentary lapse of judgement and all. I don't trust this bitch at all now. Problem is, i actually really like being around her. She's like awesome fun.

I kinda want to forgive her, but am pissed off she would just go and kiss some dude. I mean fuck, its only been 3 weeks.

Oh, and does she get points for walking outside and telling me as soon as it happened? She seems to think she does.

Advice?
only 3 weeks and she already cheated on you? thats a sign of things to come my friend. If you forgive her she'll run all over you. Taking this relationship seriously now is no longer an option. you can be with her and just mess around with other girls which is cool. or just be friends with benefits. If I was you I would forgive her and continue on with the relationship knowing that its not serious and have fun with any other girl of my choosing.. Its not likely that the relationship will last either way.
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post pic's so i can make a sound judgement.
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Dump her ass, its a bad sign
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