Girl Problems Help *LONG READ SORRY*

JMun-ki · 03-31-2008, 07:23 PM

Having been through this. I must give my 1.5 cents and tell you you'll be better without her. You may not realize it now nor in the near future but after some time you'll realize it was the best thing for you.

There are too many women out there to get hung up on some codependency type thing. Especially when she's abusing you emotionally for her wants.

Wrestler133 · 03-31-2008, 07:27 PM

I went through the exact situation when i was in high school, best advice is you dont need this psycho bitch and move on. Theres millions of girls out there, theres nothing special about this one

Three Gun Fish · 03-31-2008, 07:29 PM

Dude, this is a very simple solution but simple does not mean it will be easy.

AVOID HER.

That is it. The Secret Knowledge. The long and the short. The tried and the true. It's all you need do and all you should want from her. NOTHING.

Move on and ignore everything else she does after today. Any time you feel the urge to reconnect, do some-fucking-thing else.

But if you want to get into who's wrong and what's right, here it comes:

Assigning judgment is a loser's game. You don't sit and figure out where it all went wrong -- the important part is that it did, not why it did. Why things happen become less and less important as time goes on and more things occur in your life. Don't live in the past.

Maybe this will help. Your girl is probably honest when she says only you understand her (even though such an admission does not mean shit to you; so don't be proud). I have no doubt she actually means it, and when she sleeps with you it's because it's YOU she wants to sleep with. She's probably very honest there -- it's just she doesn't want you enough to be exclusive.

Discipline yourself. Keep away from her and find new people.

markulous · 07:36 PM

Move on. She's just going to keep going back to that other person or find some other reason to hurt you. The chemicals in your body are telling you, "Oh she's beautiful! She understands me! I'm in love! etc etc." but all that is is hormones. Just realize that there are billions of other women out there and that there are plenty of them that you can get along with. You don't need this.

Three Gun Fish · 03-31-2008, 07:34 PM

Yeah, Teets, there are going to be scores of other women who will tell you they need you. Make yourself available to them. Don't be greedy with your Teets.

Rinksterk · 03-31-2008, 07:34 PM

Be strong. Cut off all contact with her. Tell her to fuck off if she contacts you.

Irish Teets · 03-31-2008, 07:35 PM

Hey guys, I truly appreciate all of the feedback and I would love to hear more if anyone has any. Thanks

DeathNTaxes · 03-31-2008, 07:44 PM

Well...

You saw what playing I don't want you no more did. It got you free hook up sex!!!!

You gotta do what people are telling you NO MORE contact.

BUT. Ruthless hook-up ex sex can't be that bad. So use that bitch for all she's good for now - meaningless humping while you go get yourself a good girl 8).

Freeman102010 · 03-31-2008, 07:54 PM

google dear Don. better yet email Don.