Girl Help/Advice

1PunchKO · 06-08-2008, 02:17 AM

So basically the story is, me and some friends go camping, one of my female friends invites some other females. I hit it off with a girl name Kelli.. at least that's what i think. She's probably the nicest person I've ever met, not capable of getting mad, plus she is SUPER cute ( And i hear she's a virgin!)

So when campings over, it's when i realize i really like her. I talk to her friends, ask them what my chances are, they all say pretty good and to just ask her out.. So i talk to her once or twice in the week, quality convos, no awkward moments.. I was a little too nervous to ask, and just some stupid shit would come up and we would have to go or something.. so i finally ask her out on a date on Friday.. she's like "Sure!" "You've been wanting to ask me all week haven't you?" She seemed really happy.. i think.

So i go to call her later that night, no answer. I call her once more and leave a message. I find out today Saturday morning she had work all Friday night, so i was like "Cool, I'll just call her today".. so i call her today once at 3.. no answer, once at 5... no answer.. and finally called her cell one last time at about 9.. no answer.

So what's the deal? Do you think i might have misinterpreted things and she was too nice to turn me down? I don't see how you can't answer one of five calls just to let me know what's going on..

Help me out old timers, any idea of why she wouldn't answer my calls?

Eric88 · 06-08-2008, 02:23 AM

You're looking into things WAY too much... If she said sure... take it as that and give it some time... don't judge after 5 calls.........

Now, if she ignores you for a couple days.... drop that bitch.

Iosephus · 06-08-2008, 02:24 AM

you sure called a lot there duder

but let it cool off for a while, if she's that innocent she probably got cold feet (or thinks you're fucking weird)

BionikBlue · 06-08-2008, 02:24 AM

Don't stress about it, there might be a thousand reasons why. But just stop calling her for the moment, as she will probably know how many times you called her and you don't want to appear desperate. Wait until you see her (or until she calls you back) and don't start asking questions or talking about it, just pretend nothing happened and see how it goes, she will probably say something about it and if she doesn't have any interest you'll know it pretty soon and you can disappear without losing your dignity!

Let us know how it goes!

thebluerider · 06-08-2008, 02:26 AM

Just wait to see if she calls you back. Virgins are overrated. Sexually active girls FTW.

highkicknomore · 06-08-2008, 02:39 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by BionikBlue

Don't stress about it, there might be a thousand reasons why. But just stop calling her for the moment, as she will probably know how many times you called her and you don't want to appear desperate. Wait until you see her (or until she calls you back) and don't start asking questions or talking about it, just pretend nothing happened and see how it goes, she will probably say something about it and if she doesn't have any interest you'll know it pretty soon and you can disappear without losing your dignity!

Let us know how it goes!

+ JUAN.

1PunchKO · 06-08-2008, 02:48 AM

I know, won't talk to her now until Monday. It's just irritating when people can't answer a cellphone lol.. I'll let you know how it plays out.

magicman531 · 06-08-2008, 02:55 AM

Try calling her 7 more times. It's a lucky number you know.

Next time she looks at her phone she be like "pigga wwhat? playa done called me 18 times in 2 days???"

oh and you're most likely reading too much into it.

endurance · 06-08-2008, 03:02 AM

I would not call her again. The thing is to not seem needy. BionikBlue is 100 percent right.

Torrid · 06-08-2008, 03:19 AM

Seriously bro adopt the only two phone calls per day method. Anything more than that is just asking for trouble. Yeah, it's annoying, it's a fucking cellphone the size of a credit card and everyone has theres on and around 24/7 most likely radiating your testicles/ovaries into cellular goo - but people don't answer because people have a basic instinct to be horrible to one another.

Stop calling, let her call you back - if she doesn't then yeah, you obviously came to a fork in the road and you both went opposite ways.