[w0cyru01]

It's the cooks or the bus boy's baby at the pizza shop.

Does the pizza place provide daycare?

I can't wait for the next thread.

[thoughtsone]

Since when is having a kid and getting married the "manly" thing to do. GTFO with that shit, sure if you love the mom and are sure you are going to be together and not just in some phase where you guys have been together for a year or 2 and think your in love then sure get married. But really its stupid to jump into marriage because you had a kid. Like some people where saying Happily unmarried people> unhappily married people.


EDIT: also isnt this the same girl you were having problems with? Don't you work at like some min. wage shop making tips (not that there is anything wrong with it), how do you honestly think you are going to afford the kid, do you have health care (if so you should be ok for a little while), does the girl work or will she? Are your parents going to help? I am just saying its a lot of time, money and responsibility to raise a kid with no help. If the enviroment sucks you are fucking over a child basically. I also thought this was the girl that was lording over your head that fact she was your manager, THINK ABOUT IT....she got pregnant on the pill or she missed a day? So many things to consider before jumping into marriage and having a child. Think...not with your morals but with logic 1st.

[MeBig]

Originally Posted by DrSatanDracula

Man the hell up.

Marry the woman you knocked up, Bobbylight.

Seriously. It's called the honest and responsible thing to do. Regardless of whether it is a "social norm" or not. You impregnated a woman. Fucking marry her like it is proper to do so.

The entire idea behind marrying before the baby is given birth to is because it is the responsible thing to do. Who cares if people will "know it"? It speaks of your integrity, responsiblity, and love for the mother of your child and the child to be born.

Stop dicking around. This is a man's way.

By the way: If you've all ready impregnated the woman, don't you think you're in it deep enough to get married? There is no excuse. Get married. It is a shame against you, your woman, your child, and your family if you do not.

Man the hell up.

[Lubaolong]

People like DrSatanDracula are the reason the divorce rate is at 50%.

If you really want to commit the rest of your life to this girl, get married.

If not, then don't let a pregnancy pressure you into it.

[freestyle raw]

Originally Posted by DrSatanDracula

Man the hell up.

Marry the woman you knocked up, Bobbylight.

Seriously. It's called the honest and responsible thing to do. Regardless of whether it is a "social norm" or not. You impregnated a woman. Fucking marry her like it is proper to do so.

The entire idea behind marrying before the baby is given birth to is because it is the responsible thing to do. Who cares if people will "know it"? It speaks of your integrity, responsiblity, and love for the mother of your child and the child to be born.

Stop dicking around. This is a man's way.

By the way: If you've all ready impregnated the woman, don't you think you're in it deep enough to get married? There is no excuse. Get married. It is a shame against you, your woman, your child, and your family if you do not.

Man the hell up.

conventional wisdom of miserable rednecks everywhere......... i swear i hear this from christians in fort worth all the time and these poor 20 year old kids who messed up and didnt use protection get married to some girl they barely even know and then get divorced before you can say in your best goldberg voice"and its all over".

all this is going to do is get you a bunch of bills you cant afford.

too quote the great maverick

"abort abort abort goose i cant pull the handle abort!!!!"

if you cant take mavericks advice then wait it out and do what makes sense. but dont for any reason marry the woman just because she is pregnant.

[Big John]

As long as you raise your child in a secure and loving environment, it doesn't matter.

[Oblivian]

Originally Posted by w0cyru01

It's the cooks or the bus boy's baby at the pizza shop.

Does the pizza place provide daycare?

I can't wait for the next thread.

No shit. This guy's rollercoaster of a life needs to be a TV show.

Bobbylight's recent life story:
He quit smoking weed and drinking. Shortly after that, his social life become akward and non-existant. To add to that, he began "dating" his boss at the pizza shop. She sometimes ignored him around her friends. Bobbylight asks for advice on his relationship and social situation from sherdoggers. Bobbylight contemplates dumping said girl, quitting his job, telling her to fuck off, etc. Bobbylight then knocks up the girl. Now he is comtemplating marriage with the girl.

Quite the pickle you are in there...

[thoughtsone]

Originally Posted by Oblivian

No shit. This guy's rollercoaster of a life needs to be a TV show.

Bobbylight's recent life story:
He quit smoking weed and drinking. Shortly after that, his social life become akward and non-existant. To add to that, he began "dating" his boss at the pizza shop. She sometimes ignored him around her friends. Bobbylight asks for advice on his relationship and social situation from sherdoggers. Bobbylight contemplates dumping said girl, quitting his job, telling her to fuck off, etc. Bobbylight then knocks up the girl. Now he is comtemplating marriage with the girl.

Quite the pickle you are in there...

We love each other, even though she ignores me and is demeaning around other people...

Bobby...save your self and run like a mofo

[n...not crazy]

Originally Posted by DrSatanDracula

Yeahbee:



It's a very telling rejection. When you marry a woman you make her family. You make your son or daughter family, too. When you aren't married to the mother, you're making a pretty big point of rejecting her and her offspring through you. This is the entire concept of illegitimate children.

Moreover, it is highly doubtful that he is going to take care of and love his woman if he isn't going to man up and marry her. Any relationship with a woman you won't marry after you impregnate you likely think you are "not ready" and therefore things start getting put off and off...and poof. It's gone.

A man lives by integrity. That's how you go about things.

That's what marriage is about gents, it's about family. The decision is yours TS, either you want a family or you don't. I don't know your situation, but I for one am glad I was raised in an actual family.

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[WilmaFingerdo]

Originally Posted by Pillbox Joe

If you had a kid out of wedlock and you get married and it sucks, get over it. You had a kid out of wedlock, you have to deal with the problems. Get married and do the right thing for your kid instead of yourself for once in your life.

yeah, lock two people in a house for the rest of their life and stick a kid between them. Awesome idea.