getting married just because you conceived a child out of wedlock..... - Page 3

DrSatanDracula · 05-12-2008, 10:12 AM

Bobbylight:

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Its not an option. My girl and I don't believe in it, and we do have the means to care for this baby and bring it up right. We aren't in high school or anything. We will both be 22 by the time the baby is born.

You see bromeini? I believe you have something good in you there. You need to just take shit to the next level.

That's honest and decent of you. Well played, good sir, well played.

DrSatanDracula · 05-12-2008, 10:12 AM

Josef Fritzl:

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trust me it exists it is a good option you doint want too marry this chick you doint love her

Love < Honour, responsibility, and being a man.

He also clearly does love this chick.

WrestlingNerd · 05-12-2008, 10:12 AM

I wouldn't consider it alive by any means. Let's not get into that though or else it will turn into an abortion debate. And that is real it's a choice many people make. A younger person knocked up a girl before he was ready to be married or have children. An abortion is an option in my opinion.

groo · 05-12-2008, 10:14 AM

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Originally Posted by Jumpman24

Don't get married. The kid sounds like it was not planned and a mistake. If you get married that could be another huge mistake. So basically your life could turn into a horrible string of mistakes all because of a kid. Wait and see what happens during the pregnancy and a few months after the baby is born and then make a decision....

Don't rush into marriage bro...

I take it you haven't been keeping up with his threads........

Josef Fritzl · 05-12-2008, 10:25 AM

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Originally Posted by DrSatanDracula

Josef Fritzl:

Love < Honour, responsibility, and being a man.

He also clearly does love this chick.

honour means nothing

its a silly word too get dumb people too fight in wars

and too get more silly people to support it

Magooglie · 05-12-2008, 10:27 AM

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Originally Posted by groo

I take it you haven't been keeping up with his threads........

LOL!

Bobby, your parents are super embarrassed by you. So it doesn't matter if you get married or not, it's just one more little thing to load on the camel.
Just make sure you're a responsible parent so when your kid grows up he still talks to you.

DrSatanDracula · 05-12-2008, 10:29 AM

Josef Fritzl:

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honour means nothing

its a silly word too get dumb people too fight in wars

and too get more silly people to support it

Go and believe that and see how you live in life.

A man of quality knows better.

2short · 05-12-2008, 10:30 AM

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Originally Posted by YeahBee

^^^^ what the fuck?

As long as he he provides for the child and is a good fahter then so what if he ain't amrried?

you live in Talibanstan or what?

It depends on how you define "provides for" here.

If you mean if he gives $$ to the mother so she can provide the child with a home, clothes, food, toys, etc... and that makes him a "good father" I would disagree with you.

IMO you cannot be a "good father" if you are absent. You have to be involved on a day to day basis. Just giving money does not make someone a good father.

bobbylight · 05-12-2008, 10:30 AM

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Originally Posted by DaRuckus337

Also, in the future, don't rush in to conceiving children out of wedlock. This dilemma was completely avoidable with a little common sense.

I thought the pill was pretty good. I guess not.

bobbylight · 05-12-2008, 10:32 AM

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Originally Posted by DrSatanDracula

Man the hell up.

Marry the woman you knocked up, Bobbylight.

Seriously. It's called the honest and responsible thing to do. Regardless of whether it is a "social norm" or not. You impregnated a woman. Fucking marry her like it is proper to do so.

The entire idea behind marrying before the baby is given birth to is because it is the responsible thing to do. Who cares if people will "know it"? It speaks of your integrity, responsiblity, and love for the mother of your child and the child to be born.

Stop dicking around. This is a man's way.

By the way: If you've all ready impregnated the woman, don't you think you're in it deep enough to get married? There is no excuse. Get married. It is a shame against you, your woman, your child, and your family if you do not.

Man the hell up.

I would, and I have talked to her about it. She wants to wait for a while. She has the baby to worry about, and she doesn't want to have a wedding to worry about either. I totally agree with her. We are going to get married soon, but I don't really mind waiting if its what makes her happy. We are very committed to each other either way.