Failed Attempts @ Approaching Women - Page 12

Misfit23 · 05-23-2008, 02:30 AM

I got stiff armed to the face once outside a bar. I was pretty drunk at the time and am glad one of my friends pulled me away from the girl because I probably would've bitch slapped her.

Det_Kimble · 05-23-2008, 02:32 AM

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Originally Posted by Ncharge

Here's a second parter to the original topic.

What's it feel like getting rejected?

And by this I don't mean some random chick that you don't know, don't care about rejecting you at the bar while your mad drunk.

A girl who was perhaps in your inner circle or you were quite friendly with or you'd secretly liked for quite sometime.

It sucks...

Misfit23 · 05-23-2008, 02:32 AM

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Originally Posted by kakashi

meh, rejection by someone you don't know doesn't hurt at all

Yeah, there is some truth to this. I befriended a girl in one of my colleges courses and kind of fell for her early on, but I didn't ask out until a few months later, only to get rejected. That one stung pretty bad.

KrazyKanadian · 05-23-2008, 02:32 AM

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Originally Posted by tuf_enough

but to put it very simple to get a hot chick you have to be hot if not you better have a big wallet if not your not getting laid..... end of thread

No. You need 1 of either 3 things. Having more, obviously would be preferable.

1. Looks.
2. Money.
3. To be able to talk. If you can hold a conversation and keep her interested, you're good. Even without the first 2. Obviously, if you're extremely ugly, you probably need money.

KrazyKanadian · 05-23-2008, 02:34 AM

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Originally Posted by Misfit23

Yeah, there is some truth to this. I befriended a girl in one of my colleges courses and kind of fell for her early on, but I didn't ask out until a few months later, only to get rejected. That one stung pretty bad.

Friendzoned?

Also, what do you mean you asked her out?

I don't think I've ever really asked a girl out on a date. Going out for lunch/dinner or whatever you two are doing, is just that. So, I ask girls 'Hey, wanna go for drinks' or 'Hey wanna go do ______".

Does that count as asking someone out? Cause if not, I've never done it.

magicman531 · 05-23-2008, 02:34 AM

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Originally Posted by KrazyKanadian

Friendzoned?

strikes yet again

Soma · 05-23-2008, 02:35 AM

Being rejected sucks. It sucks less with time and the more often it happens the less it gets to you, but it still sucks. If I've gone a long time between being rejected, when it next happens it's stings like the first time. And the cycle repeats.

Being rejected affects me less than it does most guys, especially guys who aren't very social or feel awkward around girls. Those guys experience rejection as total domination of the spirit, seriously, which is why they won't try in the first place. They'd rather catch on fire than take the chance.

I've never been rejected by a girl in my circle of friends, so I can't comment on that one. I'm batting a 1000 there, haha.

Girls really have no idea what it's like because they get to sit back and wait for us, and there's nothing wrong with that. That's the way it's should be. Girls rarely do the approach because 1, they don't need to, and 2, because they are scared shitless, moreso than guys. But with us, we KNOW we have to do it because if we don't nothing will happen. So for men it's an accepted part of life. Not that all men will do it, but instinctively though know they should and to protect their ego they come up with bullshit like, "Oh she's not my type." haha what the fuck ever.

So yeah, rejection sucks but we forge ahead anyway.