Converting Platonic Friends- Lame Update, decent hawt pic - Page 8

Dane Bramage · 08-25-2008, 01:30 PM

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Originally Posted by NHB7

I got two stories of guys I know that turned friends into girlfriends, and both are exactly the same story pretty much.

Fred had a crush on Suzie. Suzie was pretty damn hot and lots of guys had a crush on her. Fred was about 30 lbs overweight and about 5'4". Anyway, he asked her out. She said "No, we are just friends." He kind of accepted it, but then he made her a mixed CD. Still wasn't interested. For two years he followed her like a pathetic puppy dog buying her things, asking her out, getting rejected, listening her bitch about guys she went on dates with etc. One day he realized how pathetic he was being. Furthermore, a new cute girl was working at his work (not as cute as Suzie mind you). He asked her out and she said yes. A couple days later he was hanging out with Suzie and he told her about the date. She got instant jealous and by the end of the week they were bf and gf. They were together for two years. He broke her heart by cheating on her eventually. She broke his heart by not accepting him back. He went to prison due to a meth addiction, she went to college.

Same story minus the ending for a guy named Roger. His ending is that he is now married to her and she is my sister.

mixed CD eh.......

NHB7 · 08-25-2008, 01:32 PM

By the way Dylan Ransom, I think your gut instinct about her being into herself is very true. I don't really like the term "Attention Whore" but underlying its derogatory nature, there is some truth to it. A lot of girls go through an age where they want as many eyes on them as possible. Being young and supple, thin and curvy, they have all the right tools to get those eyes. Certain girls let it become a little bit narcissistic. Anyway, judging by your picture of her, she is hot and I would love to hit it, but I can tell she is one of those girls that thrives on the attention of others. Every inch of her in that picture has been dressed up or powered with make up that screams "Look at me, I'm interesting, I'm different, like me please." Give her 5 more years and my guess is she will be better gf material by then. If she still screams I need attention by then (and hopefully you have actually moved on by then), I wouldn't touch her with a 10 foot stick because too many dirty 5 to 6" sticks already have.

Jay Pan ROKK · 08-25-2008, 01:33 PM

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Originally Posted by dylanransom

That's such an odd and cool post...

End result of night out was I didn't get any, and didn't really try. I am leaving town and I guess I pussed out cuz I'm a softy. She was really more full of herself than I ever remember her being, which was probably a come-and-get-it challenge. The sour grapes version is: I like sweet girls and I'm afraid she would have wrecked me.

what I didn't get:

She is hot, i would marry her.

Dane Bramage · 08-25-2008, 01:33 PM

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Originally Posted by dylanransom

That's such an odd and cool post...

End result of night out was I didn't get any, and didn't really try. I am leaving town and I guess I pussed out cuz I'm a softy. She was really more full of herself than I ever remember her being, which was probably a come-and-get-it challenge. The sour grapes version is: I like sweet girls and I'm afraid she would have wrecked me.

what I didn't get:

Ha....well its obvious that you talk a lot of game but don't follow through due to the slit between your legs. I know this is Gheyberry, but dude....grow some balls.

"I'm afraid she would have wrecked me." You sound like a loser. No wonder you're divorced, your ex probably went to find an actual man.

Randy Couture 1 · 08-25-2008, 01:35 PM

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Originally Posted by whipyourasstyle

^^^

Lose the conscience. Them in love means you can treat them like . . . well . . . not so nice. Your goal should be to be "the ex" that makes them think all guys are assholes.

Actually never mind, do the ones you like to do, and leave the young, tight, perky, sexually permissive, and stupid ones for me.

How could i leave them young tight perky sexually permissive ones for you now? come on dude you changed my mind ha

dylanransom · 08-25-2008, 02:23 PM

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Originally Posted by Dane Bramage

Ha....well its obvious that you talk a lot of game but don't follow through due to the slit between your legs. I know this is Gheyberry, but dude....grow some balls.

"I'm afraid she would have wrecked me." You sound like a loser. No wonder you're divorced, your ex probably went to find an actual man.

Yeah I try to invite the girl to make the first move these days. It usally works, but not with attention whoring alpha female types. Insecure from having heart trampled. I'm on my way back tho.

Altephor · 08-25-2008, 02:37 PM

I had a similar situation with a friend. Was all into her and she just wanted to be friends. And it seemed sincere rather than a blowing me off type of deal as we were actually very close friends. Anyways, I was typical lame high school 'nice guy', did favors for her, listened to her problems all the time, etc etc. Started getting to the point where people were actually starting to have sex (we were friends since probably sophomore year of high school so I'm talking about senior year now). Anyways, we did tons of stuff together and I even slept over at her house a few times, in her bed. All of my [pathetic] moves were rejected. Started getting to the point where I was just getting mad that we did things like sleep in the same bed, gone skinnydipping a few times (where it was a strict 'hey don't look at me' type deal for her) and whatnot and she still wasn't interested in anything physical with me. Found myself getting pissed at her for no reason so I just quit talking to her alltogether. Ignored her phonecalls and IMs and just essentially cut her out of my life.

The End.

No just kidding, fast forward almost 3 years later and everyone from home is at the bar the night before Thanksgiving. She shows up and I am just thinking 'Shit, I'm actually going to have to talk to her'. She proceeds to get drunk and she is all over me. Hugging me, practically hanging off of me. Giving me little kisses on the cheek and my neck. Each time she did this she would be like, 'Oh I forgot you don't like that stuff' (NOT getting seduced by a chick, she knows, or knew rather that I didn't like one night stands, which is somewhat true). Being the vindicative bastard that I am (and still struggling to get over an ex who still called me everyday), I didn't hit it. I let her throw herself at me and at the end of the night I walked her out to her car and then just walked away. Probably a big mistake, but whatever. I talk to her now though, much less frequently and I stay away from any kind of platonic type stuff. If it happens again I'll probably nail the hell out of her, but I'm not holding my breath.

Brampton_Boy · 08-25-2008, 04:53 PM

I actully just failed so hard with my best friend. I made a couple posts about her (even once in this thread), and against better judgement, decided to go for it.

Not only did I lose the girl I was currently dating (I decided to try and make things work with my friend instead of her), but I may have just ruined the friendship.

I told her everything that was on my mind, how much I cared for her etc. and she didn't feel the same way. She gave me some lame excuse how she wasn't good enough for me, and that she was afraid of hurting me etc.

I feel gutted, but so is life. I took the risk, and now I don't have to wonder "what if" anymore.

Times like this I wish I drank

KicDaKitty · 08-25-2008, 05:01 PM

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Originally Posted by Brampton_Boy

I actully just failed so hard with my best friend. I made a couple posts about her (even once in this thread), and against better judgement, decided to go for it.

Not only did I lose the girl I was currently dating (I decided to try and make things work with my friend instead of her), but I may have just ruined the friendship.

I told her everything that was on my mind, how much I cared for her etc. and she didn't feel the same way. She gave me some lame excuse how she wasn't good enough for me, and that she was afraid of hurting me etc.

I feel gutted, but so is life. I took the risk, and now I don't have to wonder "what if" anymore.

Times like this I wish I drank

Dude I totally called that one! I swear to god, go back to the thread and read my response. I was spot on.

Brampton_Boy · 08-25-2008, 05:06 PM

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Originally Posted by KicDaKitty

Dude I totally called that one! I swear to god, go back to the thread and read my response. I was spot on.

I know, it was against better judgement on my part. But when you love someone (and I genuniely do think i was in love with her), you do stupid things.