[duosix]

So my female friend has been telling me she's been grabbed a few times this week, she just started at this pretty legit BJJ place. Personally I've never had a problem with this stuff. She recently even got the poon grabbed while in north/south with this guy. Another time a different guy had backmount, went for a collar grip, and accidently went under the bra and got a nipple. The guys were blue/white belts. Just sharing, thoughts?

[AzureNight]

I highly doubt it was on purpose. BJJ naturally has a lot of grabbing of various body parts for leverage, positioning, submissions, etc. A girl should expect that; it isn't meant to be sexual. She should wear a rash guard instead of just a gi and a bra under.

[jclorley]

I always worry about doing that stuff on accident when I roll with the girl at my gym (there's only 1 in BJJ). I usually try to take it very easy on her but she's getting pretty damn good and it's not as easy as it used to be!

[Prokofievian]

Second the rashguard comment.

I wouldnt go as far as saying that I "doubt" it's sexually meant, being that I wasnt there. I dont know anyone at my gym who would do that, and if they did(on purpose) then they can go suck a fat one in hell. If it happens again by the same person, she should make a huge deal about it, and make him feel like the douchebag that he is(were he doing it purposely).

Yeah, I dont know what to say beyond that having not witnessed the events, or heard your friend's commentary directly.

[whipyourasstyle]

Your joking right???

I don't even know what to say.

Grappling/bJJ is not for you if your shy about

A) getting groped in a non sexual way
b) other peoples sweat on you
C) other peoples blood on you
D) seeing your own blood
E) athletic body odor
F) finding small hairs stuck to you

I could go on but . . . .

[monkey roll]

was she not wearing a rash guard or a shirt under the gi????

[whipyourasstyle]

This reminds me of a funny story.

I was training once with a chick visiting from brazil. She was very good but still a girl so i was going easy. letting her work sweeps, mount, escapes etc.

Well I was in mount and rolled to guard, swept and started to let her work open guard. I looked down and noticed that her sports bra had shifted and her one titty was exposed.

I sort of postured up and disengaged, I let her know and she looked down at her breast, then looked me square in the eye, and with her heavy brazilian accent said "what's the matter you've never seen one before" with that she slapped on a very tight triangle. I was so shocked I almost got choked out. I tapped, then she let go, fixed herself, looked at me and said "I win"

[Lucky Rutledge]

^^^^Thats cheating. To bad u couldnt get your sack to fall out and take the back.

[MokeGrappler]

We dont have girls at my gym so i dont really know. Although there was this one a while back who was badass and i didnt want non of that!

[hayliks]

wow, never heard of this. i'm usually more careful when I roll with girls, I don't go as hard and try not to grab any parts that would make them uncomfortable