I completely agree. There are more and more school popping up everywhere that are teaching "Muay Thai" and what they are really teaching is just kickboxing. I swear 90% of the people that use the term Muay Thai don't even know what it means.
Please people, look for credentials. If you are here on the East Coast check out Mark Dellagrotte at Sityodtong U.S.A. in Somerville MA (
www.sityodtong.com) or Guy Chase at Guy Chase academy of martial arts in Portsmouth New Hampshire (
www.guychase.tv). These are two people who live the art, who are certified, and who continually train in Thailand
There is no way for someone that has never trained in real Muay Thai to know based on meeting the instructor or taking a class or two. He or She may very well be a good teacher but if they aren't teaching you the art correctly then it just isn't real (or safe).
Look for credentials. They should be easy to spot in the school.