Great thread man, was needed!
OK guys I have an alternative to the syringe method which I have used in the past and can happily confirm it does indeed work ( I was extremely doubtful at first to say the least )
The Original Cauliflower Ear Treatment :: Fast, Effective, Painless, Natural
After using this the swelling will go down and it even can help to soften up allready deformed ears.
I also purchased a Brute eargaurd from Budovideo.com to prevent further damage and it has been great!