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Old 08-19-2008, 10:46 AM   #29 (permalink)
Sebchenier

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Originally Posted by Dane Bramage View Post
Well....you might be good with it if it goes down in ball of flames, but it might turn awkward, or it might be too awkward for her.

Anyhoo, you'll never know if you don't try.

I got with a platonic friend. I have never regretted it. Could'nt be friends with her afterward though. That's the risk I took.

I suggest you key into her signals. If she isn't giving you any, then don't do it. If she's hanging out with you one on one, that's a very good sign that she knows you're safe to be with.

My advice: Don't tell her, show her. Don't blurt out "hey, we should be together as more than just friends."
Kiss her.
QFT
don't waste your time talking about it. If you think it's worth the risk, wait for the right moment and then just go for it.
If you mention it beforehand you come off as someone with little confidence. If you just go for it the worste thing she'll think is you're cocky
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