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I am in that situation right now bro. I love my ex so much the pain is unbearable. She doesn't want it though, says she needs her time to be alone and grow (she overcame a rough childhood but I never gave her the environment she needed to grow). We broke up in July after three years of off and on. Same I thought I was ok too at first but after seeing her at a wedding of a friend we hung out a bit, hooked up a little bit and all of my feelings came right back. I knew that I had to have her back, I love her on a completely different level. Only problem is she doesn't agree, and these last 5 weeks have the absolute toughest of my life.
My only advice, it needs to be accepted by you man. This is just the way it is and there is no other way around it. Slowly, very slowly, but surely I am coming around on this as well. It's beyond hard man, but you've gotta trust that you'll make it through and be much better off in the long run.
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