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Originally Posted by younggunz
if things got stale because of oversaturation..you were infatuated...a form of love that quickly subsides...what you are going through is called retrospective jealousy..you think about her being with other people and it makes you want her back..ther is also comparative jealousy; this happens when you start dating someone new, and they lack certain qualities that you prefered in your old girlfriend..there will be many more of these before you actually find the person you find a suitable mate...think about it this way..there is a long process of elimination that has to happen before you know which qualities you can and can't live without...
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I think it did grow stale because of that, but I don't feel jealous one bit. I want her to be extremely happy, she deserves it. She made me extremely happy, I made her extremely happy, but things faded. I'm sure she feels the same way about me. As far as comparatative jealousy, I highly doubt I'll go through that. Sure, this girl was my favorite bodytype, and had an excellent personality, but to me I have no major preferences. If the girl can make me laugh my head off and is hot, and I get that "love feeling", then I'm completely happy. This is sounding so much like mayberry, so sorry for that.