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Originally Posted by Bamaispriceless
Yeah, it was about a month lol. The thing is though, we had been "talking/flirting" for 2-1/2 months, and we dated a bunch and truly was in love. It's not any puppydog bs or whatever, it was extremely strong. But we just moved waaay too fast, and it wasn't gonna work in the long run. We talked all day through text and the phone, and things got stale. I'm still sort of lonely feeling, and she will always be really special to me because she was my "first real love" or whatever, and hopefully we can be good friends, but the relationship won't work. I'll never move that fast again. Sorry, just getting opinions here.
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if things got stale because of oversaturation..you were infatuated...a form of love that quickly subsides...what you are going through is called retrospective jealousy..you think about her being with other people and it makes you want her back..ther is also comparative jealousy; this happens when you start dating someone new, and they lack certain qualities that you prefered in your old girlfriend..there will be many more of these before you actually find the person you find a suitable mate...think about it this way..there is a long process of elimination that has to happen before you know which qualities you can and can't live without...