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I agree with benji. You said it yourself, you only saw her once a week. Plus girls usually don't like guys jocking around like they aren't important (even if it's a joke) because they want to be put on a pedistal and feel special (but then again who wouldn't right? but girls really really like that). So right there that was a big mistake. You said something like when you told her you were watching the band she said she only saw you once a week and was about to leave, that problably turned her off to you.
And again, you only saw her once a week, these other guys (other bartenders) see her a lot more often, plus she's getting attention from all these other guys while you weren't showing much interest.
As for the cold shoulder she started giving you, I dunno man, some girls are just hot and cold. One minute they're into to you, the other minute the aren't That's just the way some are.
You should have just forgetten her the moment you noticed she was flirting with other guys for the first time and giving you the shrug and attitude. Just forget her, at this point her minds made up and the chemistry is gone.
You've gotta remember to strike while the iron is hot. If she's intersted and you're intersted, then that's when you can get something going. But now it seems like things have gotten stail.
BTW, did you go to this club by yourself? Was she cute? What do you think attracted her to you? (your looks?)
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